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Rolling rolling rolling, the February bus is still rolling!

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juneybean · 09/02/2015 21:04

Here we are...

Rolling rolling rolling, the February bus is still rolling!
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Nomio230 · 10/02/2015 15:18

You have my sympathy purdey. Sometimes men just don't get the urgency of ttc. Fx dh comes up with the goods.

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 15:20

Nomio! But you're on Clomid! What's going on? Did you ov last month on CD16 (presumably you did, as FF have tentatively marked CD16 green)? Do you not use opks because you're on Clomid? I use them and I'm on the dratted drug. They work, too. There is no reason to think you won't ov in the next couple of days, right? Don't stop sexing! It could be tomorrow! Or Thursday! Don't give up yet.

tessiegirl · 10/02/2015 15:25

So, just put info into ff and I have a new cycle and back on CD1...anyone else see the new month charted out and think 'Whatever, I can't be arsed' ??? Ugh....ovulation seems so very far away....meh Sad Bloody hormones making me feel like shit. This ttc game is losing its novelty.

MissMrsMummy · 10/02/2015 15:34

Yes tessie it is tiresome Sad cycle 13 and cd11 here. What cycle are you on? It so hard to keep going but at some point in the month I seem to pick myself up and keep going xx Flowers

Nomio230 · 10/02/2015 15:47

Hi purdey I have ov'd on day 14 every other month on Clomid. (Now on month 4.) This month-nothing. I wondered if it was due to the stress of moving, but things are pretty calm now & still no sign.

I am using opks, but no smiley face this month. I have no idea what is going on, but it is driving me mad.

We will keep up the sexing, partly because it is fun & partly in the vague hope of a little egg popping out at some stage!

Did you get your spermz?

Hang in there tessie. I have months like that, but you just have to believe that you will get there soon & it will be worth all this heartache. Wine

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 15:48

Tessie, I'm sorry for your fed-upness. Don't let the crash in progesterone make you irrationally sad. Keep pushing on. What will ypi do tonight and tomorrow yo make you happy? Thanks

Juney you can exercise. Remember the jam sandwich analogy? With the raspberry seed being the embryo? I continued to weight train when I flew back from my IVF. We now know Nancypants still implanted and thrived. mummy don't give up your booze if it gives you pleasure. The gov't are just trying to stop more people becoming allies. Their puritanical dictates to pregnant women are politically motivated.

I am with sperm. I am currently laid with my bum in a pleasantly lofty position atop my baby's sit-in inflatable swim ring Hmm

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 15:56

Argh! Pathetic autocorrect! 'ypi' is 'you' and 'dictates' should be 'dictats'!

Sparkly123 · 10/02/2015 16:01

Juney ah lucky you having vit D today! No Sun here!

Tessie so so sorry to hear this lovely. Sending Flowers I know it must be incredibly hard to keep going every month. You will get that BFP. You will. I know two weeks feels like forever right now but next dtd will be here before you know it. Sending positive thoughts to you

Purdooo so glad you got your last sample for AI this cycle! Oh and your right ovary got back to me- she's on board! Grin men! Prfttt! Less dilly dallying more action that's what I say! That's you almost in TWW...!!! Wink Cake sitting here with my quinoa salad, ginger tea and trying my absolute best not to eat junk as need a pick me up!! Confused

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 16:02

Nomio that's flipping strange. I didn't ov on my first cycle of 100mg - despite ov-ing perfectly well without the blooming stuff. Do you have day 21 tested? Do you (we) get an extra go if we fail to ov one month, do you think?

miss my alcohol post was for you and not mummy.

sparkly, after threatening to thrash the rebels for whipping you up into a maelstrom I am afraid Im going to be reckless with your expectations and predict you implanted at 6dpo and are currently in the club. I'm not kidding.

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 16:04
Sparkly123 · 10/02/2015 16:10

Purdey get a grip please. That's impossible! I shall not hear it!!! I'm not feeling as ill as I was when I had my BFP last month so I'm not sure!! I don't understand my cm.. I just had-tmi coming up- huge splatter of wet cm on my knickers along with some creamy patches?! What the is going on here?! I have def OV right? It's not fertile cm surely!!

Nomio230 · 10/02/2015 16:17

Glad you got your tadpoles, purdey. It seems like you have had a really good go this month.

No idea whether we get another month of pills, but I doubt it. According to opk's I have ovulated the last 3 months. I was due to go for a day 19 blood test today, just to confirm the Clomid was working, but cancelled as I clearly haven't ov'd this month.

I am on 50 mg & have 2 months worth of tablets left, but wondering whether I should just double up to 100 next month & give it one last shot.

We sent back our IVF forms yesterday. Looks like that is going to be the way forward for us. Sad

sparkly Just to stop you getting your hopes too high, I am going to say that you are not pg, but will be next month!

tessiegirl · 10/02/2015 16:28

Thanks for the positivity all. I am now sat with a cup of Brew and a twix after having had a chat with DH who started to dance around the lounge trying to make me laugh!

Miss we are only on cycle 5 now (I know, I need to get a grip) and I can honestly say not every single month has been well timed sex, so I really should shut up.

Just marinated some pork so going to make a tasty roast for dinner. You have no idea how happy I was to find pork in the supermarket the other day (difficult when living in a largely muslim country).

Purdey, my writing makes me happy so going to focus on that from tomorrow. I need a good night's sleep and I will feel differently in the morning I am sure Grin

aenor · 10/02/2015 16:52

juney It very much depends on the exercise. You need to be fit and healthy to have a smooth birth, but some types of exercise hinder you.

Walking is good, weight and resistance training is good, aerobics is bad. According to the following video, having your heart beat elevated day in day out makes your body think you are in physiological stress and you don't release an egg.

It sort of makes sense. The only exercise Victorian ladies got was a daily walk around the park and they usually managed to produce six or seven sprogs often into their forties. And if you look at videos of hunter gatherer societies, the women walk loads (to fetch watch and firewood and collect berries and nuts) but they never ever run anywhere. It's painful to run without a bra anyway and they don't wear one! It's possible that we've evolved to think of running and elevated heart-rate as a sign that we're in a dangerous environment where we are constantly running from wicked predators. Not a good environment to bring up a baby in.

Same thing goes for diet. Losing weight helps you conceive (fat gives off estrogen over and above what is produced by the ovaries so you end up with the wrong estrogen-progesterone ratio). But starving yourself makes your body think you are in an unfavourable environment for babies. So you need to make sure you are eating at set times during the day, so your reptile brain doesn't think there is a famine on.

I've lost two stone doing timed eating (where I eat only during a set ten hour period) and the period covering the "fast" is largely when I'm asleep - just stop eating at 6 p.m. and start again at 8 a.m the next morning. The best article about this method is the following one:

jamesclear.com/the-beginners-guide-to-intermittent-fasting

victoria401 · 10/02/2015 16:58

Sorry af arrived tessie :-(

I've been on crotch watch all day to see what's going on.... First wipe of the day was deffo pink. All morning brown. Changed liner at lunch. And not a lot on it since except for wipe at lunch of some really bizzare copious chocolate custard! My spotting is usually darker and streaky, fibrous looking...

sparkly I have been known to spot from 11dpo but not every month. But this month I can't pin point ov which is driving me mental! My averaging app puts ov at cd17 but I don't think so this month.

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 16:59

Is Sarajevo largely muslim, Tess? I had no idea What genre of writing? I so look up to writers, no matter how amatuerish their material. The fact that they order their thoughts on paper and engage a reader is just very clever, IMO. I didn't know you have only been ttc five months. I really ought to thrash you. Will you make a more determined effort to squeeze more sex in next month? I always look at last month's cycle and think, 'right..what can I do differently this month?' The answer is always the same: 'Shag the postman'.

I love pork, me

Sparko, didn't we once discuss the article someone on here had read that attested to conception causing the uterus to lob loads of discharge out through the cervix as a kind of clear out? Are you going to input 'watery' on your chart? I have no idea why I asked you that last question Hmm

Nomio, up the dose. Seriously. If you overstim what's the worst that can happen? I'm not being reckless; one gynae told me that 50mg should be looked upon as a placebo Hmm When I was on 50mg in 2012 I got royally fecked off after 4 cycles and still have the remaining pills. I've checked the shelf-life of clomiphene nitrate and it's five years. Guess who's upping their dose to 150mg for my final two cycles? Smile

mummyofonesofar · 10/02/2015 17:05

Juney I think we need to listen to Purdey re exercise and the seed in a jam sandwich. You can't really hurt it but don't start anything new. I will be keeping zumba up and my GP agrees. Oh with DS I was dancing 3-4 times a week rolling and jumping all over the place. Only stopped when my bump prevented me.

Re alcohol I have tried to cut it out but did have 2 wines at the weekend.

Sparkly nice high temps there. Looking promising!

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 17:10

Aaargh! I've just squatted down to change the baby's bum and I felt a glug of liquid pour out of my vagina. When I pulled my knickers down there was a wet circle of flipping semen Sad I inseminated that at 3.30. It is now 5.10 Hmm

Tessie, what do you marinade your pork in, please? What kind of cut do you buy? Belly?

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 17:14

Mummy, I've been meaning to ask what kind of dancing you did.

What's everyone having for tea? I've made chicken and lardon casserole with dumplings and we're having mash, roasties and veg. I make sublime casseroles if I say so myself. My steak and ale is famous I've also learned to bash my par-boiled roasties around a pan sprinkled with semolina before I roast 'em. Far superior to that cokehead Nigella's goose fat spuds.

Sparkly123 · 10/02/2015 17:16

Yep Purdooo watery I think? Right? I don't recall the discussion about the post implantation wetness. I ain't poas I just ain't. It's too early!!!! Urgh today is not a good day I feel very irritated!!! HORMONES! Wink that you all pumped Wink full of spermies then?! Is this the most AI you have done yet?!

PurdeyBirdie · 10/02/2015 17:16

Just when I have chance to chat wiv you all (I am at mum's) you are all absent..

Sparkly123 · 10/02/2015 17:17

Ps Purds same happens to me.. It can be even hours after! I always think it's the concieve plus too. Too much!

Sparkly123 · 10/02/2015 17:18

Sparklypants Is here mrs P! ... I
wish my pants did sparkle.. That would be cool. Bet Katie Price has sparkly pants.

mummyofonesofar · 10/02/2015 17:21

I did mostly contemporary. Loved ballet but wasn't great. Did a few shows at a local theatre. Now I jut do zumba to bed rid of my baby belly my 6yo left me with. How long can we blame baby weight? Confused

Sparkly123 · 10/02/2015 17:24

Mummyofone are you a dancer?!?! eyeslightup thanks for the positivity... Time will tell but two in a row wouldn't be fair im sure!