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Poppytime · 20/01/2015 21:12

I usually spot about 2-3 days before my period starts. Period is due tomorrow. No spotting. Bfn on pregnancy test taken this morning (but not first thing..). We are ttc number 2... I thought I was out after the negative digital test but with the no spotting it's keeping me on tenterhooks! I'm also on holiday at the moment and not sure if I should be drinking or not (not held back but not gone crazy...) what should I do? Test in a couple of days if no period? I figured a negative on the day before your period meant you are definitely out though? Sorry, really overthinking things....

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 14:41

I'm going to get a digi too but can't till Sunday Confused do I act pregnant in the meantime, ie with food and drink? What are you doing alien?

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 14:47

Thanks guys - am cautiously excited. Seems to faint to me but I guess a line is a line...

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alien11 · 23/01/2015 15:01

Didn't get a Digi but got a clearblue.
I feel normal! I did with dd too. So if I am I know the pregnancy is exactly the same- easy! One thing that was odd yday was I saw a flock of 4 magpies and thought 4 for a boy.. And then suddenly ended to down orange juice?! Maybe a sign?!
I'm going to do clearblue test this afternoon it's simple line or cross one. If that's positive I'm taking it as I am??? Then I want to write on one of dd dressing up tshirts " dd is going to be a big sister" and she is going to give dh a glass of whisky ! He ll need it ha. poppy have you told dh? Do you think I'm being a bit presumptuous? Have to tell him I'm getting positives. He knew I was taking a test I just said after that I couldn't make the cheap test out!
I know I should have got a digital but really can't spend that money on one.
I have a massive first night out with my new mummy friends tomorrow night! All meeting at mine and having wine.... Don't know what to do?! saw them this morning so it's going to be awkward..

Poppytime · 23/01/2015 15:17

Definitely tell DH alien - I am sure he will be thrilled! I told DH this morning before I went skiing. Just done a clearblue normal like you and got a faint cross....very faint but there. So looks like this is it! Must not get too excited though as very early days. Love your idea about dressing up DD and the whiskey alien! You have to do that! Very happy for your positives!

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 15:25

Btw yes you should take the clearblue as a yes if you see any type of cross however faint!! Let me know Grin

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TinyCaterpillar · 23/01/2015 16:24

Congratulations to you both! Just caught up on this thread. Wishing you happy and healthy pregnancies Flowers

alien11 · 23/01/2015 16:25

To add to my collection! What do we think??

Bfn clearblue digital day before period...
Poppytime · 23/01/2015 16:29

Definitely alien! You can't argue with those lines! Congratulations! How old is your DD btw? Mine is almost 17 months, wondering if I am crazy to be potentially having another so soon! Bit late now haha!

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 16:30

Thanks tiny :) here is my clearblue from an hour or so ago...

Bfn clearblue digital day before period...
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alien11 · 23/01/2015 16:31

Have you got pics of your tests? :-) my dd will be 4 bang on when this one arrives! Predicted due date exactly same as she was ! When do we believe it?! I will pee on sticks for weeks for reassurance hahaha

Poppytime · 23/01/2015 16:32

I know! I'm definitely going to get some more on Sunday at the airport...I just can't believe it yet either. I mean the line is pretty small right?

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 16:32

That's amazing same due date, must be fate alien!

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alien11 · 23/01/2015 16:51

Mines a lot fainter than yours but I think I am ok to start getting a little excited. Have one more cheapie test stick left I'll do tomorrow with FMU.i know I got my positive with dd on cd40 on 29th January 2010!!! Freaky or what?! How the devil can I plan her bday party though hahaha. Dh has no idea and is home in 10 mins.. Port and brandy is in a plastic cup and to shirt about to go on dd. Glad it's a Friday night and he's going up the pub he ll need too! Fingers crossed both of us have sticky beans . I had a cp couple of months ago so bit scared but a missed period is my sign. Eeeekkk!

HaroldLloyd · 23/01/2015 22:12

Congratulations!

sykadelic · 23/01/2015 23:26

Congrats to you all!!

alien11 · 23/01/2015 23:38

Thanks :)

Poppytime · 24/01/2015 07:32

Thanks! Alien how did it go with DH last night?! Yes fingers crossed all goes well for both of us - it's a stress getting pregnant and still is once you are, as everything is so uncertain!

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alien11 · 24/01/2015 07:41

This mornings cheapie supermarket test didn't show anythingr!Sad what am I supposed to believe?i have 5 from yday showing positive and this one showing negatives with FMU. Will try internet strips next. Dh is excited.i just hope I can keep the bean that was apparently showing on the tests yday.... We decided to test this morning then we re buying a digital one on weds to get 'confirmation' but it appears I may have had it this morning that it's not happening?!

alien11 · 24/01/2015 07:45

Scrap that I grabbed it from the bin and second line there!!! Arrrgh the long wait until weds to see how far along I am then dreaded wait until scan. When are we supposed to make contact with the doctor??

Poppytime · 24/01/2015 07:48

Ahh alien! See it's there :) digi will help you to see it literally in black and white! Re doctor, I don't know, I was thinking of making an appointment for the next week or so? Last time I had to so they could refer me to the midwives for my booking in appointment

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alien11 · 24/01/2015 08:03

Yeah I think that's what I did too, was a long time ago ha. Also living in a totally different county. Last time I had a super fast labour so should be interesting!!

I have this massive night out tonight as not sure what to do re hiding not drinking?! I don't know my new mummy friends that well to tell them the truth.
Also I have my dads partner coming to highlight my hair on Friday... She uses the old hat method and I have no idea if it's ok?! Really really don't want to tell her...

Poppytime · 24/01/2015 10:57

Say you are doing a dry January? I am out with my old boss on Monday night who is a bit of a drinker, and a work colleague who I haven't decided whether to tell or not, so may use this one!!

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alien11 · 24/01/2015 11:24

I have no idea what to do re drinking. I obviously don't want to touch a drop but so hard to divert attention especially with new friends

rachelrawrrr · 24/01/2015 11:58

congratulations to you both Grin

it really makes me happy seeing positive tests! I wish you both a healthy 9 months Grin Flowers xx

Poppytime · 24/01/2015 14:12

Thanks Rachel! Really hoping it all works out.

Alien - tough one! I reckon the dry January or could you pretend to sip and nurse a drink etc?

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