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April TTC girls! Where there's a new baby! Tons of BFP's! And lots more to come!

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Cupcake92 · 12/12/2014 22:26

New thread girlies!! :) hope this is okay.

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Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 17:41

Cupcake could you get a private scan? There is a private fertility clinic by me that scans in cases like yours?

Ds is fine, they couldn't find anythig wrong and said he looks very happy, alert and is putting weight on so they think it was just his bowels sorting themselves out Smile so relieved!

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 17:50

Oh phew Ducky! That must have been worrying. Glad he's fine. He sounds as if he is doing really well.

Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:01

Glad DS is okay Ducky!

Blessings got worse. Still no pain but went docs today, my scans been brought forward to tomorrow at 2:30pm. But doc said even tho I've had no cramping, the amount of blood ive lost is a considerable about so he believes im in the process of a miscarriage. Sad
Scan will confirm this tomorrow :(

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:02

Bleeding**

I just have no luck at all Sad

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Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 18:13

Oh cupcake I'm so sorry Sad really hope that they have made a mistake with you. Is the bleeding bad still? Will be thinking of you x

Dr said that he looks like a very happy baby and he's never met a better behaved one when having his temp took & stuff Envy

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:14

Sorry Cupcake! I hope he is wrong. At least you will know tomorrow. You have had a bad few months and deserve something good.

Flowers Brew

Give Ds a big cuddle- he will get you though.

Siarie · 22/12/2014 18:14

Sad Fingers crossed for you tomorrow cupcake

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:15

Through not though!

Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:20

It's still heavy bleeding. There literally no possible way the baby is alive or even in there. No one can bleed this much and baby be fine.
I don't understand why it's happened again?! The doctor said that This time I'd more than likely have a healthy baby and I dont :( :( :(

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:21

Ducky, he sounds a sweetheart. We are still wrestling with names- Joseph is our current favourite but Guy is still there and Charlie.

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:23

That sounds grim Cupcake. I am so sorry you are going through this again. I don't know what to say to you except I am sorry it is happening.

Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:28

Somebody must really hate me up there lol for this to happen twice in just a a couple of months is crap. And right before Xmas? That's just mean. :(

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:36

Give DS a big cuddle.

how has DH reacted?

Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 18:43

SadSadSad So sorry cupcake, really hope you prove them wrong

I love Charlie lulu Smile

Siarie · 22/12/2014 18:43

It will be that the egg just wasn't right, didn't implant properly or something like that. Had you not been testing you probably would have just thought you were a bit late.

But there is still hope, the ladies who bled had heavy red blood. They visited for scans so often in the first trimester. If it is a MC it's nothing you've done cupcake, it's just natures way. Cruel as it is..

Siarie · 22/12/2014 18:46

I do hope they do your scan and find a nice healthy bean for you tomorrowFlowers

Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 19:33

Thanks everyone Flowers

Lulu DS is being a bit naughty atm so is in the naughty corner and isn't allowed a cuddle just yet haha!

Siarie that's true I just have to wait for my good egg to come along

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 19:53

What has DS done? Does he just go to the naughty corner when you tell him? That is very good really.

I manage groups of naughty boys really well but one naughty baby will be the undoing of me I think.

Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 20:25

He had hit me because I had told him to stop jumping off the stool lol!!

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 21:14

Is he still in the corner? Xmas Wink

DH and I have baked for tomorrow. He has done cheese and onion pie and fruit scones and I have made a victoria sponge that i'll fill with cream, jam and raspberries. The grandmas wil love it all. He is wrapping presents now- helped by the cats not

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 21:18

He has just said to me 'if we have another baby quickly , we could have a one year old and a 2 month old this time next year. What do you think?'

What I think is not repeatable here.

His response was to grin and say 'We'll see then'

Is he a masochist?

Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 21:30

Not in the corner anymore Lulu Grin had cuddles and he's gone to bed now :)
And ooo sounds yummy Lulu! :)
Ohhh gosh Lulu a 1 year old and a 2 month old!! Xmas Shock

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 21:38

Well DH is clearly mad. He has had weeks of my moodies and we haven't even got this one yet. And he thinks that in about 4 or 5 weeks time we are going to be having sex and conceiving another one and it'll all be sweetness and light. He is living in cloud cuckoo land .

Just wait until a couple of weeks time when he is up twice a night doing bottles. He won't be as keen then.

Purplelilly · 22/12/2014 22:30

So sorry for you Cupcake, I hope your doctor is wrong. Will be thinking of you tomorrow

Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 23:06

Lulu he will soon snap out of that when it's more than twice a night he's up! Grin And don't forget the nappy changes! (Ds eats every 1.5 hours per night and has at least 3 nappy changes and takes around 15 mins or more to settle Confused)