April TTC girls! Where there's a new baby! Tons of BFP's! And lots more to come!

[Cupcake92]

New thread girlies!! :) hope this is okay.

Thanks guys

My brother just took me out and I had a great time, really cheered me up

I didn't have a baby shower either, would have liked one but don't think my friends would be into it!

Wow Tori ! That's lovely of them! :) id love a baby shower, it'd be so much fun!

Iam, I'm on CD 11 no idea what cycle id class it :s it's 10 months since we started TTC.

Ducky that's good im glad ur brother took u out :) :)

Well DS stopped being sick about 12 but since then has had an upset stomach. :( and has just had a bad nappy now so I'm not sure he'll sleep well tonight. Poor DS :(

How did he sleep cupcake? Is he feeling better?

Thoughts on this... When h comes home from work, he will come in, take his jacket off then go and hang it up in the porch then come back in. When he came in it looked like he had lipstick on his lips, I asked him what it was and he looked a bit uncomfortable, then he looked in the mirror and said he had been eating some pink sweets earlier. I went outside this morning and his jacket stinks of perfume, then I realised, when he came home last night I saw him take his jacket off outside in the freezing cold, then come in. I haven't mentioned that too him though. Is it just my mind on overdrive or do you think thts dodgy?

No that's definitely dodge Ducky, but problem is no matter what you say he will deny it. His jacket should not smell of perfume and I don't think pink sweets are very likely unless he often eats sweets?

I would hold off and gather more evidence (should have said that in my message above)

That's what I was thinking, anything I say he will deny but I don't think he'll slip up again any time soon if it is that.

Only time will tell!

Hmmm does sound dodgy Ducky .... I know u shouldn't but is there anyway to take a look at his phone?
That's one way to surely find out?

I try to see DH's phone but he keeps it that close to him I don't get the chance.
I always think If DH has cheated he'd have to leave and itd sorta give me a reason to end it.... If that makes sense? I know that sounds awful ! :s
But yes very dodgy!!

And no DS woke up at 4am! Lol! N had a horrible nappy then! :( he seems okay now tho :)

Like just now DH is on his phone and I hust read him what u said Ducky and asked him "that's dodgy isn't it?" He didn't look at me, and just said "mmm" and put his phone down and looked at the telly.
See DH had another girlfriend when I first met him, I never knew this tho as he said he was single... I found out by this girls mother calling me, by this point I was 12 weeks pregnant. N her mom said he had broke up with her only a. Week ago which meant he'd been seeing me and her whilst I was pg! So I wouldn't be surprised if he did it again if I'm honest.

He deletes his texts! He says because his inbox gets full quickly, surprisingly it never used to!

He cheated on me before years ago, he told me they only kissed but everyone else said they had sex, I also found another girls necklace in his bed shortly after that, he completely denied that one too and said it was my necklace! I did actually leave after te cheating incident but due to reasons out of my control I had to go back

Ohh I hope ds feels better soon cupcake I can't beleive how similar our husbands are!

I'm pretty sure he will be doing exactly what you expect him to be doing Ducky based on what you've said.

Omg my DH did something like that too but with a pair of knickers!!! Then said "oh they must be my step moms" !!!!! This was when he lived with his dad and step mom. But they so weren't hers! And Im the same I left him too but got back with him. I probably shouldn't.
Sometimes I wish I hadn't. Nobody understands how difficult it'd be to leave now tho. If we didn't live together then it'd be a lot easier.

We really must of picked the 2 worst men!

Ducky That really does sound very dodgy After everything you've been through in the last year I really feel for you, and Cupcake having such rubbish H's! How are you feeling about it? What would you do if it turned out he was cheating? Would you be able to ask him to leave? Or would you be able to leave him?
Cupcake, what you said about if your H cheated again being an excuse to chuck him out, I was thinking the same thing.
I know I'm very lucky with my DP in that he is incredibly trustworthy, but the biggest reason I'm not bothered about marrying him is that if things did go down the shitter at some point, it would be a lot easier for us to go our separate ways. I know it's a bit pessimistic thinking like that, but sometimes you have to be practical

Tori, you're so lucky having a baby shower! My friend asked me a few months ago if I was going to have one and I said no because I thought I'd feel a bit cheeky asking people to buy me stuff, but since then I've decided I really want one but I know you're not supposed to organise them for yourself and I've mentioned I'd like one to a couple of my friends and hinted that maybe they'd like to organise one but I don't think they've got the message!

I forgot to ask - did / have everyone's boobs grown during pregnancy? and if so, when? Because min have grown a tiny bit, just enough for me not to be able to fit into any but one of my bras, which I wore all the time until a couple of days ago when I went out to get myself one that did fit. And it was the weirdest thing because before I was pg, I was a size 32C/D and the one I'd still been able to wear was I think a 32/34D but it took me aaaaaages to find one that actually fit and the one I ended up buying is a 38C! So not bigger in the cup at all but much bigger around the back, even though I don't think I've actually got a fatter back or if I have, it doesn't look it! The one I got is a nursing one because I was thinking I could use it after the birth as well, but now I've realised that my boobs might grow a lot more in the next couple of months???? I expected them to be huge by now tbh!

Lil if he had cheated that would be the end. I really couldn't/wouldn't put up with that

Cupcake and Ducky- not mincing my words, you two have awful DHs. I don't know why either of you stay. You are both married- you would both get maintenence and be able to keep where you live. Neither of them are any help now anyway. They are just eroding your self-esteem. You both deserve much better and so do your children. And I speak as someone who has lived with the crappest of the crap partners in the past.

Never say never Tori. I hope it is true for you but I have seen a man who I had never caught lying before and who I thought was incapable of lying because every emotion he felt showed on his face and he had been devastated when him wife cheated on him, and yet he cheated on me several times and lied in incredibly devious and creative ways which emerged afterwards.

I don't think DH would cheat or lie - he is ridiculously straightforward and totally decent and loves me to bits. But I would never say never.

It's a long story lulu wouldn't want to post it on here just incase someone I know ever saw

We had our first baby born on my April due date thread! Early (of course) but the lady was only two weeks ahead of me. Madness! The baby seems to be doing well.

I really do need to sort out my hospital bag pronto!

Get to it siarie! That is early

oh god! I need to get mine packed too!!! What was her due date?? And what's yours?

I'm due the 27th of April, the lady was 30+2 I'm 28+2 so was two weeks ahead. It was a c section due to high blood pressure but it just shows anything could happen now

Lill my boobs grew from a 32C to a 34E!!!! No joke! N they grew literally straight away haha

Lulu I admit I have no self esteem anymore. I used to be so confident now I'm not and frankly hate my body now.

N oh gosh Siarie! That is early! But thank god baby is doing well! And yes chop chop! Get that bag packed !! :p