The Pregvember bus- With Frolic dog as our mascot and ov dance lessons we can all get our BFPs (Thread 3)

[xBlueberry88x]

Come on ladies we can make this the bus where we all graduate with BFPs!!

cariad hugs to you, I know the longer I am ttc-ing for, the more cross I am getting about my ectopic and my body but it was nothing we could do and if we can get pregnant once then we can do it again. Stay positive!

number3 that's awesome news that you haven't had to wait as long for your third. 3 is the magic number right!

Well I am a bit confused and peeved. 7dpo here and my temp dropped a bit today and I have AF cramps which is really weird, I have never had an LP less than 11 days before

Genni and Cariad I know how you feel, all of our friends are now starting to get pregnant and with relative ease. It feels a long old journey for us so far as we haven't had even a sniff of a pregnancy so don't even know if it's possible for us. I think you have to try not to focus on other people even though it's hard. Everyone's ttc journey is different and maybe it will take longer for us or perhaps we will need assistance which is disappointing but I'm sure we will all get there in the end. I'm sure our friends will have struggles to face maybe in other areas of their lives or with things that have been fairly straightforward for us. Just trying my best to look at things as positively as I can even though it's hard and very disappointing at times.

Dozy, sorry to hear that your gp won't do the tests. Would you consider going private for peace of mind? I know at my clinic it's only £30 for a progesterone test. If it did show up an area of concern you could then take it back to your gp. Although I do agree you shouldn't have to pay for these things but sometimes it's just so much easier than all the waiting and faffing around on the nhs

Really sorry for everyone that AF has got and wishing you a Xmas bfp.

Congrats again to number3

BFP:
ThePurplegiraffe
Huffs123
Ceds86
Sherbet38
Broodylicious
SoapSudBub
Wanttobeamummyin2015
Number3cometome

Any news?
Allatonce99, ttc# ?, cycle ?, BFP due 31 October-1st November
Twilight, 32, ttc#1, cycle 1 (since last mc), bfp due 2nd November
Joey0805, 32, TTC#1, cycle 2, BFP due 5th November
Generalbrownie, ttc#1, cycle 6, bfp due 5th november
iamevan, 35, ttc#2, cycle 6, BFP due 7th November
Northgoingzax, 32, TTC#2 cycle 2, BFP due 8th November
Nordicmom, 39, ttc #3, cycle 10/11( lost count ), BFP due 6th-9th November
Jessica, 29, ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp due 11th November (ish)
MishushB, 33, ttc#2, cycle 6, BFP due 11th November
Sakura03, 36, ttc#1, cycle ?, BFP due 12th November

No news yet:
Stowfrenchy, 36, ttc#2, cycle 5, BFP due 14th November
TheProofIsInThePudding, 29, ttc#1, cycle 2, BFP due 14th November
rubyrubes13, 31 ttc #1 cycle 4, BFP due 14 November
Toots, 31, ttc #1 ,cycle 1, BFP due 14th November
247babyonthebrain, 29, Ttc#1, cycle 5, bfp due 14th November
MademoiselleG, 33, ttc#2, cycle 4 (post TFMR in July at 15 weeks), bfp due 14th November
Pikz, ttc #2, cycle 11, BFP due 15th November
Quietlyhopeful81, 32, ttc #2, cycle 3, bfp due 15th November
Toothachereturns, 36, ttc #3, cycle 5 (2 months off after a cp) BFP due 16 November
MissMrsMummy, 30, TTC #1, cycle 8, bfp due 16th November
Blueskygirl30, 30yrs, TTC#1, cycle 6, BFP due 17th November
Treaclepie19, 24, ttc #1, cycle 10 ( mc cycle 4 ), BFP due 17th November
Beauticiannotmagician81, 33, ttc#4, cycle 1, BFP 17th November
JessieMcJessie, 41, Cycle 1, TTC #1, BFP due 17th November
Victoria401, 34, ttc#1, cycle 24, bfp due 17th/18th November
Secretreveleater 35, ttc#4, cycle 2 (1 really since no dtd in actual cycle 1!) BFP due 18th November
kissinggiraffe, 35, ttc#4, cycle 1, bfp due 18th / 19th November
Natalie1989xo, ttc#3, mc Sept, cycle 5, BFP due around 18-22nd November
CoffeeOne, 31, ttc #2, cycle 4, BFP due 19th November
Terrysno2, 33, TTC#3, cycle 3 (after ep) BFP due 19th November
Cariad2014, 32, ttc#1, Cycle 6, BFP due 19th November
Frolicacid, 34, ttc #1, cycle 3, BFP due 20th November
Rosebud2015 30, ttc#1, cycle 1, BFP due 20th November
Ninjabeer, 35, ttc #1, cycle 4, bfp due 20th November
Lucieloos, 35, TTC#1, cycle 9, bfp due 21st November
Boosk, TTC #1, cycle 3, BFP due 21st November
Ohlordyplordy, 34, ttc#1, cycle 5 (cp cycle 4) BFP due 22nd November
gennibugs, ttc#1, cycle 12, bfp due 23 November
Mzzzf, 33, ttc#1, cycle 5, BFP due 23rd November
Bovneydazzler, 30, TTC #2, cycle 9, BFP maybe 25th November
Jcandy, 30, ttc #1 cycle 3, bfp due 25th November
Nutelladipper, Ttc #3, cycle 2, BFP due 25th November
Illiria, 31, ttc #1, cycle 8, due 25th November
sm2012, 35, ttc#3, cycle 3, BFP due 25th November
Isabeau1980, 34, TTC#1, Cycle 4, BFP 25th November to 1st December
Angelaham, 34, ttc 1, cycle 5, BFP due around 27th November
MrsGingerbread, 32, ttc#1, cycle 9 (mcs 3 and 4), BFP due 29th November
Middles809, 31, ttc#1, cycle 1, BFP due 30th November
Blue500, ttc#1, cycle 3, BFP due 30th November
XBlueberry88x, 26, ttc 1, cycle 20 (cycle 2 on clomid), bfp due 30th November

Imgoingforatwix, 31, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due?
Justdrive, ttc #2, cycle ?, BFP due?
Alien11, ttc#2 cycle 3, BFP due?
Whatamuddleduck, 32, ttc#1, cycle 4, BFP due?
cth1982, 32, ttc#1, cycle 11, BFP due ??
Pixie1985 29, ttc #1, cycle 2 (this time, in total about 15 lol!) BFP due ??
Ainat266, 27, ttc#1, cycle 1, BFP due?
Lilwelshyrs, 27, ttc #1, cycle 1? BFP due November...?
Kirstywa1, Ttc#1 cycle 1, BFP due ??
Seafoam, ttc# ?, cycle ? BFP due late November
Gemsparkle84, 30, TTC# 1, cycle 4, BFP due ? November
Fififolle, 37, TTC #2, cycle??, BFP due ??

AF Arrived:
Nettle86
Mistywillow17
MaGratgarlik1983
Dozygirl
Knittedmittens
MaMaPo
Spinningirl10
Beansprout30
Aprilray
Butterflycats
Mumwannabe82
Tessiegirl
SueBridehead
Orangeisthenewbanana

Dozygirl
Push for a progesterone test - they have no reason to deny that, it's cheap but will give a good idea of what could be happening.
Privately think it is about £100
x

I was trying to push for progesterone tests as I don't see how that's hard or expensive for them to do and I don't see why u should wait if it looks like u have a problem. He was only gonna be concerned if I was having spotting throughout my cycle though not just in the lead up to my period. And I think it was an easy option for him to say it was down to an infection I had absolutely no signs of infection last cycle so it shouldn't have made a difference. I'll do this though to rule it out and then go back and ask for tests but try with a different doctor. I think spotting from as early as 7dpo must mean a problem but I won't know for sure unless I have tests. Hate doctors :(

Dozygirl he sounds like a right treat wanker

Is there another doc at the same surgery?

Say your hair is falling out or something equally PCOS relevant and you may get somewhere? -we have to do what we have to do

x

I think you need to see a lady doctor, might be more understanding and sympathetic. I got sent away when I pushed for tests after 9 months. Didn't have the guts to go back until 15months ttc. All the tests me and hubby had on nhs which took us up to a referral took 9 months with all the faffing and waiting and chasing. A few private tests if you can afford it sounds good.

Congrats to those bfp. Hugs to those who AF showed or are struggling.

I got a opk positive on Monday which is great. Now much to people then dtd? We had on Saturday night, positive Monday so dry Monday night and again Tuesday. Should we try again?

X

Tried not dry!!

Don't stampede at once but poas addicts - FRER are bogof at boots.

Despite knowing af is on route given the cramps and upset tummy I normally get I succumbed and bought them.

For next month not tomorrow first thing obviously.

Toots I'm off to boots later doing a Christmas shop aaaargh

terrys I was reading about temp drops earlier and it says that in a study 23% of single temp drops resulted in pg and the most common day was 7-8 dpo. I had a temp dip this morn at 6dpo so I'm clinging that statistic! Be interesting to see if they go back up tomorrow.

Congratulations number and amazing it happened so quickly for you this time!

Sorry AF has arrived for a few of you. It really is the worst feeling, have a treat and get psyched up for the Dec bus!

dozy sorry they won't let you have the tests. I have lots of spotting too and nobody seems bothered. So maybe I shouldn't be either?! I've read lots of forum posts from women who have it and still get pg.

Just rang GP surgery for blood results and it's CLOSED . Why did they tell me to ring today?!

Ps terrys I woke up with AF cramps too but they've gone now

dozy keep pushing for any tests you feel you need. Lie if you have to
I've decided to join slimming world next week. I need to lose a lot bit of weight and I'm sure doing so won't hurt any chance of getting a bfp.

Good luck with SW kissing I found it really good as you can eat and be full all the time!

Sounds like my kind of eating plan then miss I get really grumpy if I'm hungry!

I joined sw a few weeks ago and without trying hard lost 6lb! Go for it!

dozy I had spotting all the time and ended up being a cervical ectropian which is easily zapped and often goes by itself .
Did he have a look at your cervix? If not get a female gp to look and if needed refer to a gyny to cauterise it. It's easy to diagnose and is a relief now I don't have it anymore !

Now I am obsessed I am symptom developing damn pre af being same thing as pg symptoms. All because I caved and bought frers. Am on cd 28;)
Lots of ewcm and pinging pain on one side.

When will you test toots

I have really bad period cramps now. I know they come with bfp also but these definitely feel like proper af cramps. I'm only cd23, 9dpo. so I think af might show up early not due for another 5/6 days.

Afternoon lovely ladies,

Works boring and I cant wait to get home to see dp feels like I havent seen him in agesss, plus its the start of the dtd marathon lol

Spinning Glad AF has buggered off hope ovulation holds off until your holiday!

Orange Sorry AF turned up the bitch!

Cariad Sorry your feeling down treat yourself to some cake, please dont feel like a failure I know its not easy im not one to talk but everyone is different and some people need that little extra time or help

Dozy most doctors are dick heads and you must keep pushing if you believe something i wrong. Maybe try a different doctor and go in armed with prints offs of proof that the spotting might be caused by progesterone.

Nutella Dtd as much as possible, you can ovulate any when up to 36 hours after a positive opk so Mon Tues and Wed at least

Kissing Gd luck at SW I wish I had the guts to do it but I dont like feeling like im limited on what I can eat, plus being coeliac it makes diets a lot harder.

Finding the last few days a little hard my back has been really sore and it just puts me down and makes me so tired which in turn makes me feel depressed grrrr

dozy as Victoria said, my understanding is that you only need to have been TTC for 12 months before they start investigations. I would ask to see another doctor. Good luck!

MissM I hope you're right about the implantation dip but my drop is not massive and my temps have been a bit all over the place the past few days as I had a couple of nights drinking (not too much but I think it affected it) and a few early wakings.

I've decided 7dpo is officially the worst, my patience is wearing off, it's too soon to start thinking of testing but still so far away from 11/12dpo when you can! How do I make the next 4/5 days without obsessing?

Dozy as blueberry says keep pushing too! As much as I respect doctors, GP's are still general practitioners so they don't know everything. When I phoned my GP about my bleeding and pain he told me everything would be fine, if I had a +ve pregnancy test then I should just wait for my booking in appointment. I insisted on an EPU referral as I felt something wasn't right and then they discovered the ectopic . My DH was livid when he found out as the consequences could have been fatal.

Hi all :)
3dpo for me and just waiting for af as I'm not gonna be pregnant this month. Will read back to see how you all are. Hope all is ok x

That is shocking terrys good job you insisted.

Was your temp dip 0.3 or more? Apparently that is classed as significant.

Enjoy DTD blueberry! You will be sick of if in a few days lol

kissing really hope it's not AF!

sunbathing I found that Pregnacare messed with my cycle and spotting as well.