April TTC girls, the thread where everyone gets their BFP! :-)

[Ducky23]

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Thanks cupcake, good luck for tomorrow x

I am exhausted too Cupcake. I am in bed. Have left DH with his mum and dad.

Grandmas have been telling host stories and we all ate the Halloween cake which was a chocolate spider with pipe cleaners for legs.

SIL boyfriend is lovely, just seems really nice and they seems very happy together.

I am looking forward to getting home tomorrow and seeing what our decorating is like.

Hope DS sleeps through tonight. What are your plans for the conversation tomorrow- when is it?

Thanks Ducky :)

Aw that's goood Lulu glad SIL boyfriend was nice :)
I could have sworn I was exhausted! But I've woken up and struggling to get back to sleep! :( ive been tossing and turning and just can't go back to sleep.
I've no idea what I'll say to 'h' yet Lulu. Just want to hear what he has to say first. Need to have a chat withmy mom in the morning for some advice haha :)
And Lulu he's coming over once he finishes work as he has to work on Saturdays but he finishes at half 2 so anytime around then he'll be here. Atm I just don't care as I have no energy as I'm exhausted. Just wish I could sleep !! :(

Hope u have a good sleep Lulu :)

And now I'm up and downstairs watching tv! Think ive got Insomnia tonight!

Thanks Tori :)

Hope today turns out as you want Cupcake and is not too stressful.

Well h got very upset and said he knows our relationship isn't perfect.
But we decided to see how we go till after new year and he's going to stay at his dad's house 1 week each month so we both get a break from each other and if nothing has changed or if things get worse by new year then we will go our separate ways and just be co parents to DS.
I'm okay with this as I feel like I'm not giving up completely.

But what a day haha.
Can't believe ive been awake since 2am as well.

Are you feeling happier now cupcake? You need to make sure you are happy too

Is it what you wanted? Do you think he realises how much he has to change and how?

Are you giving up on TTC for a while?

What a day for you. You must be exhausted.

I love the decorating. We have spent the afternoon sorting the room out. DH has moved all the furniture round and everything has had a really good clean. It looks very great. It's a pale grey but it definitely has the faintest shade of lavender which only shows in certain lights. All the woodwork and ceiling is white. It's really fresh and the bed is wrought iron and the bedding is white and pale grey . The other bits in the room have pink in them. The curtains are white and the blind is almost the colour of the walls. We need a couple of new rugs and a new light shade.
DH says it is nicer than our room. It's bigger and smarter but I am cleaning ours tomorrow! We could do with new curtains. I am going to have another sort out and see if I can get rid of one of the chests of drawers into the garage. I can't believe how much stuff we have considering how much I got rid of in the summer.

In a way I feel happier knowing we get a break from each other as the problem was we spent too much time together he only works 4 hours a day so i never rele get a break from him. And Lulu I hope he realises how much he has to change, I had wrote a list of all the things I thought were not right about him haha. But I made him also write a list about me too.
But we'll see what happens. But not TTC-ing till after new year. As much as I want to TTC as I'd love another baby but it's best to have a break. Obv unless this month is BFP month haha.
I'll stay on here tho as I like talking to u all and it's nice to let off some steam etc :)
Lulu the newly decorated room sounds beautiful!! Grey is such a soothing colour :)

I keep going very hot tonight. Hate to symptom spot but can't help it! Lol! So I've had cramps, not sleeping well, getting hot flashes, and hate to say it but very gassy! nearly Tuesday, so will see what the test says :) I'll be 11 DPO then.

Sounds like you are being sensible. You will know by then if it is going to work. Bet your list was longer than his! Although, he might surprise you. There have been times I think he has shown potential.

DH is trying to get round me tonight. He has just made a very cheeky, indecent suggestion and been told where he can go. He is grinning at me and has offered to make me a cup of tea.

We'll see what happens Lulu :)

Haha s cup of tea is always offered when they want something!!

I should be fast asleep as ive not slept since 2am! But I just can not get to sleep! It's driving me insane! :( what is wrong with my body? :(

Hi cupcake, glad to hear things are at least somewhat sorted.

I'll join you on the insomnia bench - been wide awake since about 2:30 :(. DD is happily snoozing next to me, DP stayed up late tidying and is now asleep on the sofa. I'll be up in ~1.5 hours with DD as DP will be too tired

Is it wrong to take a day off work for pregnancy insomnia?! Otherwise I don't see any way of catching up on sleep :(

Bears it's awful not being able to sleep. And especially when u have a child there too.like yesterday I was awake from 2am the. DS got up around 5am. It was such a long day haha!
Last night I woke up a little later at 4am but I've been awake since then.
And Bears it's not bad at all to take a day off! U do it and get all the sleep u need !! :)

Keeping my fingers crossed for you cupcake!

I second having the day off! You need your rest

Thanks Ducky ! :) trying VERY hard not to go buy a test! I'm 9 dpo now. So I keep telling myself "don't buy a test it's far too early!" Hahaa

I got my postive 8 dpo ?? but I implanted early like 4dpo. You need a few days for the hcg to be high enough after implantation. Xx

I'm knackered! Had my niece around and she's 14 months old. Such hard work but adorable.

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I mean babies in general are hard work by the way she's a real sweetie. You have to have eyes in the back of your head though!

I'm glad you've come to an arrangement with your DH cupcake. Now we just need to wait and see if you'll get your BFP this month or not. Ekk

Hope veryone has had a good weekend

Hopefully Tuesday will bring a BFP for you cupcake and an induction date for me am worrying though as I just did my roots for the first time since of and he's gone a bit quiet

Am really struggling with walking now an when I do 'walk' it's more of a waddle!

Aww do you think you'll be induced soon ducky?

Can't believe I'll be 15 weeks tomorrow and that it's now November! That seems mad, actually mad.

I'm hoping in around 5 weeks siarie I'm going to try and leave it as late as I can but I have been having very bad movement anxiety

It's your scan soon too isn't it?

Siarie I don't implant till quite late, I did with both pregnancies. :) I wish I did implant early! Would be great! :)
Siarie my DS is 14 months old! He's hard work for sure! They have so much energy at this age!

Oh wow Ducky can't believe only 5 weeks to go that's mad!!!!

I have been really tired today and slept for two hours this afternoon. I knew I shouldn't have done it, I feel perky now and will probably sleep badly tonight.
Work tomorrow so have to be up early!
Hoping to last the. rest of this term- 7 weeks. Will be 37 and a bit weeks by then. Two weeks holiday at Christmas and if I hold out, then maternity leave starts. I might not last these next 7 weeks at work.
Plan is I go back in September. DH thinks I should have the full year until next January but we'll see.

I know it's mad

Am just hoping I get my date Tuesday, I have an appt with my consultant and will be 32+5. I was told that I will get my date at 34 but my next appointment wouldn't be until 35+5 and it will be with a different consultant who I don't like.

I wonder if I can pick a date or if they will give me an option

How have things been with h cupcake?