Struggling now! We started trying for our second child in May 2013. I had my first MC in Nov at 11weeks over hubby's burthday , tried again and had another in May over my birthday. Been trying since with no luck. I hate the monthly disappointment. Closest friends are either all preggers or trying to be with their own problems. When should we give up and see Dr, nhs advice says 3MCs or more or trying for over 12 months so I don't know what to do, help please!