Dd took over two years. I was in these pages event day an totally obsessed (on the grapefruit juice drinking threads under a different user name if any if you remember those).
Ds happened first try when dd 15 months.
Just persuaded dh into ttc number 3. No idea what will happen.
I do know know however that I am incredibly lucky to have two having thought I would have none, and that I won't have treatment or even investigations for this one (conceived dd one month before starting ivf). Also that I do not have the time and energy to dtd every other day for two years. And that I will not obsess this time. Ha - am already obsessed and dh is overseas for two weeks while I am fertile this month so it's not like there is any chance at moment. (Though for dd I would have got flight an demanded he shag me between meetings if ovulating - I was that desperate).