am i pregnant???

[broodynmoody]

Me and my dp had been trying since January for a baby. I found out two weeks he had been cheating on me with a close friend and now i haven't came on. Ive had irregular cycles over the past seven month, the longest 41 but now im on day 45. These past few days ive had dark browny blood ive took a test and its negative. Am i pregnant? I need to know ASAP cos i may have a termination.

I can't remember to be honest i could have conceived anytime. If its implantation bleeding and i took a test would it come up positive? I cam take another one tomorrow.

I came off the pill an started using condoms but one split so I went to get the morning after pill. I can't remember when my last period was or when I'm due on. I've been cramping today and yesterday but still nothing. I googled it and all the sites are saying it's an early sign of pregnancy!?

Broody it could be the stress of what you are going through that has maybe delayed ovulation and so is therefore delaying the arrival of AF. If your cycles are irregular you might not be ovulating frequently either. Brown blood is old blood too so there is the possiblity of implantation although I have fertility issues and before i had my DD i would often get brown blood before i came on (when i did come on that is).

Sorry for all that you are going through

You could test again today. Do you know when AF is due? Do you chart your cycles at all?

Ive had 28, 28 40 41 the last few months. If i am pregnant when will it show?

Oh broody you poor thing. What am awful situation you are in. Problem is, we just won't know if you are pregnant or not because we don't know if you have even ovulated due to such a long cycle, when you ovulated if you did and if you timed intercourse during that time. Your brown blood could be a sign AF is on her way, you see.

If it is implantation bleeding, then you would need to have had sex a maximum of 12 days ago for this to be a possibility. Most implantation happens around 7ish days after ovulation so if you had intercourse last week, this would be a likely scenario and i would test in three days time as that is how long HCG appears in urine after implantation.

Otherwise, the stress of what you have gone through is highly likely to have affected your cycle and I am truly sorry you have had to go through this

Thanks everybody. Im trying not to stress. I tool another test this morning and its negative but where is this bloody period then?