Considering using a fertility spell [Please note: thread title edited by MNHQ]

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Ive found a girl who does fertility spells and she has excellent reviews and there has been many discussions on other groups about her spells her success rate. Im going to purchase my spell from [edited by MNHQ] on friday. There not expensive like u would think. You can ask for boy girl or twins and it has worked for many other people. I am wanting to know is anyone wanting to try this with me and see if we get our wee babies. Im willing to try anything and anno people can be sceptical but I believe in everything and just want someone to join me and dp through this journey.

How much are you getting fleeced fir this spiritual woo Hoo?
Bad enough that you believe it with recommending it

For gods sake OP don't give them your money it's a disgusting scam praying on the vulnerable

It's a scam.

You are gullible and you are being SCAMMED.

They are stealing your money.

They have no shame and prey on vulnerable people.

Save your money for something real. Treat yourself to a movie or something but please, please don't get involved in this poisonous crap.

Apologies if I upset you I assumed you were a spammer. Please don't get sucked in by these people - they are scamming you

Think about it,if it worked nhs would snap that up.No more tears,or distraught women ttc
Except it doesn't work,it is a scam,with no scientific basis

Oh please OP dont give this person your money! There are no such thing as spells. It's bullshit and it's used to trick desperate people into handing over money for nothing. Please dont put yourself through that. It is a scam.

Im desperate and I feel like its my fault and like im lettindp down and I just wanted to try anything but I didnt want to do it alone. Im scared il never have a baby dp will blame me and im just havin a bit of a wobble and being stupid I think desperation took over. Im sorry if I offended anyone xx

Oh dear, just out of curiosity I clicked on the link provide by the OP (...I know, I know ). It makes really depressing reading. People buy the 'spells' from EBay. Jeez, I wish they would make it illegal. It's absolutely disgusting.

OP, if you have had a rethink as a result of this thread then maybe there was some value in it. Infertility is really difficult to deal with but you have to be sensible about it. I hope you get the support you need from people that actually have your best interests at heart and are not simply trying to rob you.

Good luck OP.

OP you will find good support on the TCC threads. Please don't feel like your alone but please stay away from the scams they will only cause you more pain.

Also have you talked to your DP about how you feel?

Now I know you are a real poster and not a spammer, I'm sorry for what you are going through. And I'm sorry for the way I reacted.
Desperation causes us to do things we wouldn't normally consider.
I know it's my fault that DH and I are struggling but if I make it into an obsession it will cause us both harm.

I really hope you get your miracle baby.
And I mean that.

Yea my dp just tells me its not true but sometimes I think its just to shut me up. Im just so fed up of ttc and it failing. Like it got that bad that wen my cat had kittens last week I got so jealous like and its rediculous I just lost it for a moment. Iknow everyone on this struggles with ttc. I just didnt think I got so worked up at the concept of a spell working I feel so silly fgs and BREVILLETRON I would have been the same if It was the other way round id be fuming xx

No harm done

Hi all,

We've been in touch with the OP and she's asked if we can leave this thread running. She feels (and we agree) that this thread may be of use to others who are tempted to go down this route.

Thanks to everyone who's given her a lot of sound advice and support.

We'll be editing the title so it no longer appears to be promoting a spell caster.

I tried for years to get pregnant. I spent a fortune on reiki, vitamins, reflexology, fannied around doing magicky stuff on Halloween, both during and in between IVF cycles. This was all on top of avoiding alcohol, cutting down on caffeine, not smoking and so on.

I also read, and worried about, various woo shit about not eating anything out a plastic packet, finding your "food type" which then meant you had to cut out wheat, dairy or other stuff, worried about herbal tea and all sorts of bollocks.

I had one natural ectopic, very early IVF miscarriage, which with hindsight was very possibly a self resolving ectopic, and another IVF which ended up in another ectopic and getting my final tube out, and some other failed cycles.

I didn't get pregnant on the next IVF after getting both tubes out, but I finally got up the duff after that. By which pointed I had abandoned worrying about eating mung beans, spells and all the rest. The problem was my tubes and not my chakras.

I think the lesson is that anyone can take a while to get pregnant, on the balance of probabilities (what is it, a one in six chance per cycle?). If you don't have an actual medical problem them you'll get there. If you have been trying for years then you're highly likely to have a problem that can't be solved with mumbo jumbo.

That site is selling fertility spells for not that much less than my initial private appointment with a consultant cost a few years ago!

Sorry for the essay, just from going through it and coming out on the other side it annoys me how people make money out of the misery of infertility.

• CAN be solved with mumbo jumbo! Would have loved it if putting a wind chime above the toilet - it was a negative influence in my fertility energy feng shui area - had mended things!

at putting a wind chime over the toilet!

Anno ladies just had a wobbles and desperation took over glad ive seen sense but :)

Glad you're feeling better OP and fingers crossed it all works out for you.

I found my wind chimes when we were moving house, I tutted at myself and threw them away

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