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Some advice please!!

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claireyd89 · 11/07/2014 12:58

Hi!
I need some help! I had my daughter in April of 2011, my husband and I started trying in June 2010 and I found out I was pregnant in August 2010. I had never been on any contraception prior to having my daughter. When she was a few months old I went to the docs to get on some bc and opted for the depo. I had 4 injections, the last if which was August 2012 as we decided to start trying for number 2. With my daughter we never counted dates, my periods have always been irregular but we just had quite a lot of sex lol (tmi I know!) anyway I had a nightmare on the depo and hated it, it has taken about a year for me to regain any type of normality. I'm still not 100% sure how long my cycle is but I really am getting desperate now! It is getting to the point where I have actually lost friends who have had babies out of the sheer pain of having to go and see their babies! I know that's cruel and I should be more mature but I can't help feeling like that! Anyway, I had the first day of my last period on the 13th June, I was very very wet on the 30th June and used a opk which was pos, took one again the next day which was also pos. the following day I had very stringy discharge. Me and my husband did it on the 30th and I think the following day, for about a week after I felt very bloated and full, almost constipated. That's gone now but I have had lots of cramping on and off for the past week or so. Did a preg test (£1 cheapy ones) and got a bfn yesterday and the day before. Also went and got a Superdrug one and did last night got a bfn. What do you think? I think based on the opk my period should come 2 weeks after so maybe the 16th of this month making it a 32 day cycle?! I'm just so desperate it is unreal!! Please someone give me some hope!! Xx

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onehappymummy · 11/07/2014 13:37

I know exactly how you feel although I am looking for less hope. I got a +opk on the 3rd July and for the last 2 or 3 days I have been getting quite a bit of cramping, backache and have felt really tired. I did a home pregnancy test yesterday then told myself off for being so silly and trying to get a BFP 7 days after ovulation!

I find false hope devastating, especially after trying for getting on a year. I have symptom watched and in Sept was hospitalised after I assumed something was a pregnancy symptom that I should have recognised as something else. So at the moment I am trying to explain away my tiredness as simply being overworked, my backache as the result of carrying around a lazy 3 year old, and the cramping as the result of exercise. Its the only way I keep sane. So you have plenty of symptoms but do think if there is anything else that could cause them.

That being said - I have recently purchased some internet cheapie tests so I can poas all I like from Tuesday of next week :)

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