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Anyone Ttc after tfmr??

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EmilyPinkOrBlue · 28/06/2014 20:58

Hi I had a tfmr on 22nd June I was 16w5d with my gorgeous little boy. Miss him tons and feels surreal that I have given birth! Still bleeding but looking ahead to when we can Ttc again. Is anyone else in the same boat? I used these boards when Ttc my baby and would like to come back but don't feel like I fit anywhere anymore.

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FeelingPositive1 · 29/06/2014 16:03

Hi although my tfmr was 2 yrs ago, I thought I'd reply, as I know how hard it is.

I also had a MMC at the end of April this year, so only just started ttc again. We had ivf last time but still ttc anyway before next treatment. Lots of women fall pregnant quickly the month or so (or less) after a mc or tfmr, so it does happen! I had to wait for tests etc, but wish I'd got on with it sooner! Generally you're advised to wait til you've healed up, or a couple of cycles, but it's up to you really!

I'm sorry you miss your little boy & had such a bad time. It does get easier. Wishing you much happier times ahead xxx

Monten · 29/06/2014 19:59

Hi emily so sorry for your loss Thanks

I had a tfmr in January and know very well the feeling desperate to be pregnant again. There is a thread on the Antenatal Results and Choices board for women who are ttc-info after tfmr. It is quite quiet, it's (thankfully for the majority) not that common I guess so traffic is fairly low.

I had a miscarriage after my tfmr, sadly, and ended up on a ttc-ing after a miscarriage thread which is much more active. The ladies on there are lovely, please do come and join us. There's another lady who had a tfmr too.

Here's the link:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2100224-Home-on-the-amazing-and-determined-TTC-after-mc-ers-We-know-all-about-the-ups-and-downs-trails-and-tribulations-how-it-feels-to-live-in-the-cruel-world-of-Facebook-baby-bombs-Solidarity-sisters?

CatFaceCrayola · 30/06/2014 18:56

So sorry to hear this emily.

We've been thinking of you lots over on the Dec thread.

((Hugs))

espa · 30/06/2014 19:33

Hi Emily. So sad to hear your news. Just wanted to echo CatFace's thoughts. Xx

SassehMonsta · 30/06/2014 20:17

And me Emily, good luck with the TTC and do check out the board for antenatal tests/choices for people in similar situations. All our love xx

Treaclepie19 · 01/07/2014 13:48

Emily, I'm so sorry to read this. Come and join us on the ttc after mc board xxx

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EmilyPinkOrBlue · 01/07/2014 17:26

Thank you for your lovely messages ladies. I will hop over into the mentioned boards x

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ImBrian · 01/07/2014 23:21

Emily I'm so sorry to hear about what's happened xxx

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EmilyPinkOrBlue · 02/07/2014 11:17

Thank you imbrian. Wishing you lovely ladies happy and healthy pregnancies I hope to be back joining you very soon!

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