The wait to see if I've conceived is like torture:(

[zoelouisa1]

I had a chemical pregnancy on 28th April 2014 and should be due on my af today (29 day cycle), my boobs hurt and ive had terrible pms like symptoms bit worse, weeing loads and mow to top ot off tonight got the headache from hell. I promised my hubby I wouldnt do any tests till I was at least a week late but ove jist gone upstairs after tea and done a secret cheap tesco test and it's negative not sure if to repeat in the morning or not the test was one u can use from 1st day of missed period, feel like om gonna crack up, darent even have a bottle of wine just on case:( feeling miserable x??

Excuse my spelling trying to type quick

Hi zoe

I understand how you feel, I too had a chemical pregnancy back in February which broke my heart, I felt so cheated after seeing that positive test and then it all being taken away from me. No doubt you felt the same?

I've been trying to conceive #2 for 5 cycles - this is my 5th. AF is due for me on Thursday the 29th. This cycle has been different for me, I'm so much more relaxed, I haven't even considered poas because I just don't think it's going to happen again this month. Plus I've got all my pre AF symptoms too.

I do believe that stress is such a key factor to not conceiving cycle to cycle, I know it's hard but just try and relax. Stress can cause you to ovulate late which then causes your period to be late, leaving excitement and then confusion.

Try and just have sex when you want to without counting the days and see what happens - easier said than done I know.

Are you trying to conceive your first?

Thanks I swore I would never get stressed bit I am. Its my 2nd child im ttc,y daughter is nearly seven and with her it took me five months to get caught with her . Im gonna do the other test in tje morning then if it's negative im having a large glass of wine tomorrow after work sorry for your loss too, life is so unfair at times x

Any news? X

Hi I did the other test this morning bit it was negative although tje tesco ones I have got dont detect early hcg so im in limbo , keep getting period like pains then running to the toilet then nothing grrr its really frustrating, :(

When is your period due hun? X

It was due yesterday but it will be my 1st cycle since my chemical pregnancy last month x