April girls TTC, Part 3... BFP?!!! (It rhymes, so it must be true!)

[MrsPopple29]

Here we go again ladies...

He's only recently gotten like this. He's always had his grumpy day n apologised after but nothing like this and now he makes a point of saying 'I'm not apologising as I'm not gonna let u rule my life I'll do what I want'
What is with that ? :s I just hope us ttc is what he really wants deep down. I've asked him n he says it'll mean the world to have another child, but his reactions lately don't seem like it :/

And yes lulu we need an answer to that!!

That could still work lulu
Lol!!!

SIL is lovely, has become one of my best friends. Am dying to tell her about being pregnant.

Your DH sounds like he is struggling with something in his head or some kind of stress. He shouldn't be taking it out on you.

Aw bless :) when are u telling everyone the good news?

N I guess so but he'd never tell me what's bothering him.
He never expresses his feelings, he's a strange one lol

Not for a while. Am seeing consultant this week- might have to go by myself if DH like he is. GP said he might do a dating scan. If he does we should have a clearer idea how far on I am. Our estimates are between 6-7 weeks. So we would wait a bit yet to tell anyone.

Il happily take his dsis after the night I have had!!

Has this kind of stuff been happening a lot recently cupcake? I can Deffo relate there must be something in TTC that's sending them round the bend! DH has had me in tears tonight!

Has anything happened recently you think that could of caused him to act like that?

How exciting!! :) I used to love going to the appointments and scans!

Yeah a lot recently. Just turned into a horrible moody selfish person.
Well we are moving next week and he's still waiting to hear about job. N obv me testing next week. But I can't think of anything else :s but we've moved before and I was pregnant then n he never acted like this. :s so I dunno Ducky.

Oh no whys he had u in tears ? :(

Ducky Why has he had you in tears? Has he been horrible too?

Maybe you should send him and Cupcake's DH off somewhere together.

Men are strange. I had a long relationship- well 3 years which is quite long- with someone who could be lovely but who told lies all the time over nothing. I think he had some sort of low self- esteem relating to his lack of formal education but it was ridiculous what he would lie over. It destroyed us in the end. Just could not trust anything he said. Not that he cheated but I just could not trust him and that was a deal breaker as far as I was concerned.

Then there was the one who was just selfish and cruel really and I made excuses for him for 2 years. He did cheat on me - but 'only physically, never emotionally' was his excuse. Worse than that was the emotional cruelty- nasty remarks, selfish behaviour.

I decided I was better off by myself. Bought a house, focussed on my career, had time out, off men and just looked after me. Then, out of the blue met DH.

And I bet yor glad you got out of that lulu!!!

Well he wanted to go out again and assumed il drive but when we go out our friends all just stand outside all night smoking. I didn't want to go because of the horrible weather and I'm finding not smoking really difficult and don't want to stand around smokers all night but I was going to go to keep him happy, but all of a sudden I have gone stupid dizzy and nauseous, no way id be able to drive and it's almost payday so we can't afford a taxi. DH doesn't worry about his pregnant wife, instead he starts going on about how awful his life is because he can't go out

I know where me and DH go wrong, we get on so well during the week but then at the weekends he drinks, and he's a very very heavy drinker to the point where he can hardly walk or talk and it makes me angry.

I keep telling him once dc is here it's stopping but I don't think it will. I will not put up with that with children in he house though

DH makes me lie to his dad. About us seeing his mom.
If his dad knew we were seeing his mom he'd disown DH, honestly. I won't go into details just a big family fall out when DH was a teen. But I hate lying to them and I sure as hell don't want my DS lying for him!
Men, I've found they are always awful in one way or the other haha! DH has been fine up till recently, he's always been looking after me etc but he's turned quite bitter.

I've had my fair share of horrible men too lulu one cheated on me and the only way I found out was because he had used my phone to text her n she text me saying 'I've cooked u a special dinner' I asked who is this, she said 'Hannah' ' why? Who's this?'
I've had one lovely man before, but sadly that ended as he had to move away. Then I met DH a couple months after n I fell pregnant with DS 1st month of being together

I think lulu is right, my DH and your DH should go away together

Because men can't feel the baby they don't get why they baby makes a woman feel so ill.
I'm sure one night in won't hurt him Ducky?
Men aye :/

They deffo should Ducky !! For a week! Or 4 :p

You'd think it was killing him!

I've come to bed now anyway left him to get sloshed again!

And I am off to prepare for hosing down DH! And they say romance is dead.

Bed is the best place!! I'm in bed DH in lounge, think he's on CoD. But I'm leaving him to calm down lol

Heavy drinking scares me Ducky. Mr Emotional Cruelty drank heavily- only on Fridays and Saturdays but it was scary and I hated it. He was never violent, in fact he got soppy, but he was absolutely blotto and so used to it he could function the next day but must still have been drunk.

Bet that was awful lulu :/
I can't sleep. I can't get comfy at all n I've got cramps in my belly.

I bet all the other ladies must think we've been on a moaning marathon today :p

Try not to worry Cupcake As Scarlett O'Hara said 'Tomorrow is another day'

Am now in bed with DH- who is washed, hosed down and sweet smelling, pain- killered up and he is ready for some sleep.

I am going to have a nice hour with my mug of tea and ipad.

Sleep well. Night night.

Morning hope all slept well! DS is up rather early today and I'm hoping he decides to eat breakfast n then go for a nap haha
I finally drifted off then DH came to bed and put the telly on REALLY loud! So of course I woke up. And then I could not get back to sleep at all! My leg kept feeling tingly it was so weird :s anyone get this before?
I'm tempted to test this morning but I'm doing my best to hold off till Friday ! :p
Enjoy ur day everyone

It scares me too I dread the weekends

It's my first day back at work on Tuesday! I've been off since the beginning of feb! I feel like I don't have a clue what I do!!

Tori, I'm exhausted already haha! Sorry to hear ur working today! I used to work weekends until after I had DS, now I don't. But I liked it, I liked having 2 days off in the week as it seemed peaceful and everywhere wasn't so busy lol.
Good luck for Tuesday Ducky I'm sure ull do great! :)