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Unsure of paternity??

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hf22 · 18/05/2014 19:14

I had been having relationship troubles for a few months being on and off with my partner. We had ended things and I ended up sleeping with someone else on a drunken night out and then almost a week later I got back with my partner. I am now pregnant.
The first day of my last period was the 15th Feb, I slept with guy#1 on the 19th, he did not cum at all as we were both drunk and he was too drunk too maintain his erection, and we ended up just falling asleep. I then got back with my partner, guy#2 and slept with him on the 24th and later again on the 28th, which he had came inside me both times.
Using an online due date calculator it would suggest I would be due 22 Nov, and that I would have ovulated on 1st March, making guy #2 the dad.
However after my 12 week scan, they have said my due date is the 18th Nov and that I must have ovulated earlier with a 24 day cycle, meaning that my conception date would be the 25th Feb.
Is there chance that guy #1 could be the dad even though he didn't come at all?

I am aware of my actions not a hard time about being a slut, etc. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Kezzybear · 18/05/2014 19:19

Very unlikely to be guy #1 IMO. You had only just finished your period. Does #2 know about #1?

OldLadyKnowsSomething · 18/05/2014 19:22

Agree it's unlikely to be #1.

stubbornstains · 18/05/2014 19:25

Candidate no. 1's sperm could have survived inside you for 5 days (even if he didn't come, some might have leaked out), and you could have ovulated on the 24th, but it's far far far more likely that Mr Two is the father.

Your next step would be to start a thread on the Relationships board pondering the ethics of whether to tell Mr Two I guess.....good luck!

hf22 · 18/05/2014 19:33

I just keep reading all sorts about 'precum' and even though #1 didn't ejaculate at all, it's getting me really stressed out being uncertain.

#2 doesn't know about #1 but he does know about the baby. It wasn't something I could hide, with morning sickness etc.
I didn't think there was a chance that it would be #1s baby until the ultra sound scan put my due date 4 days earlier than the due date based on the first day of my last period. :(

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Patheticpsammead · 18/05/2014 19:36

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stubbornstains · 18/05/2014 19:57

Yes, well, er, "precum" produced my DS Blush

But, the withdrawal method not being an effective means of contraception aside, it is still much more likely to have been candidate #2.

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