BFN 6th Cycle :(

[Rhuber]

I know 6th is barely beginning to TTC but it blooming gets you down i hate buying sanitary towel i hate seeing red and i hate the OPK's which make everything worse because they are always BFN too :( anyone else on 6th ??

I tested Today but no due AF till 16th so did it too early plus my brain keeps tricking me into thinking im pregnant sore belly/tight belly etc its so cruel i could cry and not stop :(

But if your OPKs are bfn too, then you should try to get to know whether you ovulate at all? Just being unhappy is not going to help in anyway, buy a good thermometer, get to understand the wonders of basal body temperature and gather data to prove that you ovulate - or do not. if you find you do not ovulate they can verify this quite quickly when you go to drs finally. Head up!

I had this a little last month - cycle 6 - BFN!! Had a total meltdown for about 24hours and then thought i am not going to give up!!!! We will get our BFPs eventually!! Agree iwht JassS - find out what is happening re ovulation because with that no matter how much trying it wont happen!!! May be good to have a chat with your Dr so it is documented that you have been trying in case they make you wait etc......

Good luck!!!! it will happen!

*without that xx

been think about temping how does it work though is it like the highest temp first thing in the morning means your ov or something the whole thing sounds and looking confusing i don't OPK's everyday once every 3 days i'm forget full and i use ovulation apps which all tell me different things and DTD every other day my AF has evened out a lot the past year it used to be all over the place but now its on a set date each month im only 20 yrs old too its so depressing i was always thinking id just be one of those girls that got pregnant straight away oh how wrong i was i think i need to up my game and OPK each day

everyone keeps telling me drs wont help anyway until a year and even when they do they ask you a million question about how ready you are and how financially stable you are i don't know whether it is true or not i might make an appointment and go see what they say in a month or so id like to keep trying OPK more and try see if i can do basal body temp i want some clearblue tests but money is tight and they are expensive

I know how you feel, af arrived for me today too :( I'm definitely gonna start using ov's and charting my basal temperature this month. June will be our month for bfp's ladies! :)