Thank you Treacle, I am not too worried actually. I am just using every little ounce of positivity in me to will this little one on! And thank you everyone else too!
So stats:
dtd cd 4, 6, 7, 9, 13, 15, 16, 17 (twice...for good measure!), 19 and 21
Ov'd on cd18 (tracker app' reckoned it would be two days earlier but got solid smiley on the Tuesday afternoon and definitely felt the ovulation pains -probably knowing for the first time in my whole life what it actually was!- on the Wednesday afternoon) and started having flashing smileys from cd13.
Things we did:
used CB opk with flashing / solid smiley faces
Took epo before ov
NUDP a couple of times and pillow under bum. Definitely no peeing after dtd for as long as possible
took conception vitamins (his and hers, although I am not sure how many 'he' actually remembered to take!)
drank some grapefruit juice before ov and ate a pineapple after, but I honestly don't think this is relevant...
I just convinced myself this would be our month and did lots of positive visualisation of conception etc. I got inspiration from Marisa Peer (sorry if you find her irritating, I found her really positive and reassuring!...) www.tryingtogetpregnant.co.uk/
EDD according to MN is January 6th, which was our DD's due date in 2012! (we are expecting a lot of grief for that, along the lines of: "So...you only have sex once a year?)
Oh and totally tempted the law of sod by spending £££ on new clothes this month. Also ordered LOTS of delicious boozy drinks in our last online shop and came back with tonnes of cheese and wine from our French holiday.
Sorry for the mammoth post :-) eeeek, exciting!