TTC first time, cycle unpredictable, no idea of OV!

[CarpeDiem3]

Feeling very frustrated! Came off the pill last August and cycle had been like clockwork at 30 days until this year. Feb cycle was 36 days and this month I'm at day 38 yet no sign of AF, just cramps for last week. Did a test and BFN, now I'm feeling disheartened as have no idea when I'm OV or where my cycle is at! This baby making malarkey is tough!!! Anyone feeling the same?

Get a massive pack of opks from Amazon, start testing twice a day from CD 10, you'll soon see a result! I got my current BFP using these for the last three months and timing conception sex! I've found it takes away some of the uncertainty and stops ALL sex being about ttc. This was the first month I also told OH it was ttc sex so he knew to put the effort in! Good Luck!

Thanks MissHobart. Frustrating waiting for AF to make an appearance so that we can start trying again. Didn't realise what a control freak I was until I started doing something that I have absolutely no control over!