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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 09:18

For anyone that is in limbo, no AF but BFNs!

Me: Cycles normally 30-34 days. Today is day 35 tested today BFN. Had slight pink tinge on sat eve when I wiped after dtd (sorry tmi) since then nothing!!

Driving me crazy, is there hope for a BFP soon??!

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06097196 · 31/03/2014 09:44

Hello again!
I'm now on CD40 of what's usually a 30 day cycle and no sign of AF, hate this!

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 09:46

Hi!! Oh you poor thing!! Are u still testing BFNs??

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06097196 · 31/03/2014 09:49

Yep, bfn yesterday lunch time :(
No hint of a line of any of them and believe me I spent a lot of time staring at them!
I'm starting to think my body has just messed up and not ovulated this month :(

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 09:55

It's horrible, this is the one month I didn't use opks, typical!!! Have u been docs/made appointment?

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06097196 · 31/03/2014 10:02

Oh that's annoying!
Well I went Friday morning last week and they just did a normal urine test and of course it came back neg and she just brushed it off and said I'll just have to wait for it to come.
If it's not here by Thursday I might go back and 'demand' a blood test.
Have you made an app yet?

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 10:05

Yes I would ask for a blood test if you are normally regular!

No I haven't, I'm going away Thursday and working in between so won't get a chance, I hope I get an answer before Thursday!

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06097196 · 31/03/2014 10:08

I think I will, i can't concentrate on anything at the moment I'm so excited/nervous/worried about it all!
Have you had any significant symptoms yet?

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 10:15

Yes I would, it's only been a day for me and it's all I think about.

I've had "symptoms" (not sure if pg related). Been waking up with headaches. Really bad low back ache for about a week, one morning I felt really dizzy (never feel dizzy!) I've had cramps and occasions of feeling sick. Also keep thinking I have monents of a metallic taste. Sore boobs, kinda underneath it's not what I normally feel before AF. But then sometimes I think am I imagining these?

How about u?

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 10:18

I'm also VERY moody before AF shoes but been in very good moods! Cried at program on tv last night, skin seems clearer than normal at this time of month.

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06097196 · 31/03/2014 10:21

Ooh well that sounds hopeful!
The main one is painful boobs, they look veinyer and my nipples look darker (lol!)
I've also had headaches, more tired and I look bloated.
Only time will tell I guess!

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 10:24

Well you sound promising too!

I thought this ttc would be easy, it's so not!!

Just want to know one way or other!!

I've heard people sometimes don't get a Bfp until weeks after AF, I hope that's not us and we get it very soon! Not sure when to test again!?

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06097196 · 31/03/2014 10:31

Yeah I've heard of people who don't get a bfp till two weeks late or more! I hope that is me because otherwise I'm definitely not pregnant and my bodies playing tricks on me:(
I'd say test again when you're a full week late to save yourself money and disappointment, but it's soooo hard not to!

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 10:40

I think I will try Wednesday morning (got few tests upstairs) just so I could then potentially know before holiday!
I can see myself having to take tests in my case!! lol

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06097196 · 31/03/2014 10:46

Oooh good luck! Let me know how you get on x

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NewlymrsB · 31/03/2014 10:50

Thank u, I hope you get an answer very soon, book a dr appointment! Let me know too xx

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broodysnoopstie · 01/04/2014 09:32

I'm cd 56 of a normal 33 day cycle. Got doc appt on Friday when I will be 26 days late! !

06097196 · 01/04/2014 09:37

Oh my gosh, bless you?! That must be awful!
Have you taken any tests recently?

broodysnoopstie · 01/04/2014 09:42

Yep this morning. bfn like every other one!!

summerlovingliz · 01/04/2014 09:44

Hope u all get your positives soon Smile

06097196 · 01/04/2014 17:53

Help! Talk me out of POAS tomorrow morning, I only have one left and I don't want to waste it but I'm sooo tempted to. When should I wait till. If I am pregnant I'll be 6 weeks on Wednesday. Should I wait till then?

06097196 · 01/04/2014 18:06

I meant I'll be 6 weeks on Thursday ahah, so should I test then?

broodysnoopstie · 01/04/2014 23:16

save it for 6 weeks unless you have a massive symptom then POAS!!

06097196 · 02/04/2014 18:06

Damn, did another test and of course bfn. I'm so sure I'm pregnant id be really shocked if I'm not. I'm beginning to feel like going to the doctors and asking for an ultra sound before I ask for medication to prompt af (have heard this can damage baby?) I am truly in ttc/pregnancy limbo.
How's everyone else doing?

CarpeDiem3 · 02/04/2014 21:23

Hello! I posted earlier but didn't realise this thread existed and others are in the same boat! [Smile]
Being in limbo is so frustrating, I'm on day 36 of a usually regular 30 day cycle with no sign of AF, just cramps for the last week and a BFN!! What is going on? Fingers crossed for a BFP for you all x

06097196 · 02/04/2014 21:42

It's just horrid. I found a long old thread on a different website and everyone on it never got a positive hpt and only found out via blood work or more commonly, an ultra sound. Now I'm totally convinced I am pregnant!
I have all the symptoms, boobs are agony, head aches, back pains, just no nausea. Just no bfp :(
Hope everything goes well for you!x