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FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 22/02/2014 18:24

TTC number 2, DS is 5. DH is in the navy so it's pretty slapdash at the minute but about 17 months with a 6 month gap in the middle. My cycle is usually pretty regular and I don't think DH was home at the right time to conceive but I'm 3 days late, I don't have any pmt type symptoms but I don't feel pregnant either. I have a test but I'm reluctant to do it because I don't want to be disappointed it it's negative. Can someone talk to me about being patient and just see what happens

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MolotovCocktail · 22/02/2014 18:30

Honestly, it's best to wait until you're 7-10 days late. 3 days late isn't much, IME.

Good luck Smile

FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 22/02/2014 18:35

Thanks, my rational brain knows that but my emotional brain is screeching 'hooray we're pregnant' it's hard to keep prospective.
Sometimes it's better heard from someone else Smile

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ButICantaloupe · 22/02/2014 18:38

I know how you feel.

Last month, I didn't have a period. I spent weeks convincing myself I was pregnant. Lots of BFN results and my period came bang on time this month. I'm sure it's my body's version of a joke!

ButICantaloupe · 22/02/2014 18:39

Sorry, accidentally posted!

I agree with Molotov wait a few more days before getting too excited. Smile

FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 22/02/2014 18:40

Ah that must have been torture for you.
Thanks I'm just trying to think of something else to keep my mind off it.

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ButICantaloupe · 22/02/2014 18:43

Yes, it wasn't fun!

I tend o get stick into researching something to occupy myself. Holidays, weekend breaks, a new career. Works or me. Smile

MolotovCocktail · 22/02/2014 18:49

I know how you both feel, too. Nature is cruel and it feels sometimes like all your late periods come when you're trying to get pregnant. I've done many tests when just a few days late and it's just so tremendously disappointing to see negative after negative, month after month.

If you can wait it out, it's more likely to be the result you want to see x

FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 24/02/2014 15:09

Impatient creature that I am, I only lasted until today before POAS and it's a BFP!!! Grin

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MolotovCocktail · 24/02/2014 15:54

CONGRATULATIONS!! Lovely news Thanks

FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 24/02/2014 16:51

Thank you, it hasn't quite sunk in yet Smile

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MolotovCocktail · 24/02/2014 17:30

When will your baby be due? Oh, it's all so exciting Grin Thanks

AlpacaYourThings · 24/02/2014 18:36

Oh that's GREAT news!! Smile Congratulations! Flowers

jellybeans001 · 24/02/2014 18:42

Her baby will be due in October as I have an October born and found out I was pregnant in february as well. Congrats

jellybeans001 · 24/02/2014 18:43

I'm not pregnant by the way that child is now a beautiful 5 year old

FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 24/02/2014 18:46

Thank you and yes Jelly is right, 30th of oct, my DS(5) is a December baby so the last quarter of the year will be very busy in our house

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MolotovCocktail · 24/02/2014 18:49

So pleased for you Smile

KittyVonCatsington · 24/02/2014 18:59

Congratulations, FTR!" Exactly what the February bus needs Smile.

Although I'm testing again in a few days to see if I get a darker line, the Mumsnet and NHS due date calculators for me said due date 1st November based on last AF and ov date. We will probably straddle both months!

RPopz · 24/02/2014 19:12

I once took a test when I was half a day late rolls eyes... I got my period during the 3 minute wait...

Try and wait if you can x

AlpacaYourThings · 24/02/2014 19:15

Grin RPopz you might want to RTFT OP is pregnant!

RPopz · 24/02/2014 19:21

D'oh!

Congrats Mrs :-)

FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 25/02/2014 08:17

False alarm it seems I misinterpreted the results, have done a second test this morning (-ve) and af has appeared Sad

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SweepTheHalls · 25/02/2014 08:19

That's crappy Sad

MolotovCocktail · 25/02/2014 09:38

Oh dear, you must feel very upset Sad Hope you're okay xx

FTRsGotAShinyNewNN · 25/02/2014 09:43

I feel shitty and I'm now off to the toddler group that I help run, oh joy Hmm

Thank you for the kindness though Smile

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AlpacaYourThings · 25/02/2014 10:00

Oh I am sorry to hear that, OP. Sad

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