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Late AF, two BFNs....I am going CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 16:55

CD34 now, usually a 32-33 day cycle, I have been so good this month - no symptom spotting, no early testing....now I am officially late (latest I have ever started is afternoon of CD33) - so I tested last night and this morning with a standard First Response test (not the Early Result ones) each time, and both unarguably BFNs Sad .....what is going on? Everytime I go to the loo and there is no blood the little ball of excitement that is growing inside me gets bigger, but I just know that I am not pregnant and AF will turn up eventually (no symptoms at all).......anyway, just a rant really - feel free to ignore!

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NannyGR · 20/02/2014 17:04

Am going through exactly the same thing, am now 9 days late and nothing, am giving it until Tuesday (then will be 2weeks late) and I'd still BFN am going to doctors for blood test. There's a couple of other threads on here of a few of us experiencing the same thing so you are not along! hugs

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 17:07

Wow Nanny, I don't know if I'll last two weeks! I was thinking I would get down to the GP after a week...I want to know as have an underactive thyroid which needs testing ASAP as my meds may need adjusting....It's just so frustrating isn't it?! Especially when you soooooo want to be pregnant - how many times have you tested?

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NannyGR · 20/02/2014 17:10

Yes its horrible, I went to the doctors weds, after testing 3 times before that. She said to give it a week, test again and if still negative she'll do some bloods. MEGA frustrating as am normally like clockwork and have been trying to conceive for 10 months, roll on Tuesday!!!

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 17:26

Wow, really hope this is your month! Thing is, I bet the stress of worrying is not helping - if you are not pg, it will just delay AF even more...this TTC is so hard - I have my fingers crossed for you

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NannyGR · 20/02/2014 17:32

Thank you, trying not to think about it for now! Let me know how you get on x

mylittlesunshine · 20/02/2014 17:38

You have my sympathies, I'm 6 days late but had 3 negative tests. It's really frustrating, I had loads of symptoms that made me convinced I was then they went away and today I feel very queasy again and have painful nipples tmi! I had cramping a few days ago that I thought could be AF but it's gone now. Trying not to test again for a while as I hate seeing that bfn.

I have everything crossed for you, keep us updated to how you get on x

whenskiesareblue · 20/02/2014 18:05

Me too, around seven days late. Had bloods done at gp yesterday. (Hi Nanny!)

Doctor didn't actually mention possibility I might actually be pregnant so I'm now just hoping I get AF soon!

There must be something in the water - all these late AFs and negative tests! Fx they turn into BFPs soon x

findingherfeet · 20/02/2014 18:08

If it helps, I was four or five days late (with a bundle of bfns in the bin) before I got my positive. I just KNEW! Good luck

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 20/02/2014 18:09

Thanks feet... praying that happens to me

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Fingerscrossed10 · 20/02/2014 18:49

I'm going crazy too!!! You aren't alone!!
CD32 normally 26 and now 2 BFN's...
It's so frustrating... I just can't help it but have a tiny glimmer of hope still even though the tests are negative! I don't know why as no symptoms either way still... Maybe just me willing it to be a BFP!!!

LittleOne76 · 21/02/2014 06:17

I'm the same. Usually a 33 day cycle and now three days late and no AF. I tested when I was one day late and BFN. I'm trying to hold off testing until tomorrow morning when I will be four days late...... I feel a bit crampy and very tired but no obvious signs. With DS1, I remember I had quite a bit of CM and sore boobs by this stage. Am hoping it's just a matter of every pregnancy being different....
I do hope AF arrives soon if I am not pregnant though as the uncertainty re. my cycle is a bit painful. I've had super regular cycles for the past half a year but have had a history of long and irregular cycles in the past....

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 21/02/2014 14:18

2 more BFNs today...am so Sad Angry Sad Angry Sad

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Fingerscrossed10 · 21/02/2014 16:12

CD33 now a week late!! I have resisted the urge to test today but might try again in the morning.
Anyone got any positive news yet???
Hope you guys are still managing to stay sane and functioning!!

Treaclepie19 · 21/02/2014 16:29

Can i hop on here please? Feeling terrible today. Cd35 and just sitting reading stories about late bfps...

Fingerscrossed10 · 21/02/2014 20:51

Hi treacle
I keep doing that too!! Am starting to think it's really really common... Though it might be that I have just googled it 6 thousand times!!!
I have been a total grumpy arse today, this is totally doing my head in!!

babytinks89 · 21/02/2014 20:56

I'm still lurking around with a bfn and no af either!!

20dpo expected ovulation day... cd34 same long cycle i had last month!!

Fed up now i actually just want af to be here so i can get back on it for March! Confused

Fingerscrossed10 · 21/02/2014 21:07

Fed up too!! Just eating my own body weight in Haagen Dazs... Am sure I read somewhere icecream was one of the foods you should eat that and pumpkin seeds... I know what I'd rather eat!!! ??

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 21/02/2014 23:02

God, I am fed up. I bloody hope I am pg! Feel fucking miserable to be honest. Have loads of spots coming up on my face too, just not my usual period spot Sad

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gloopygloop · 22/02/2014 07:56

Can I join in? Although I don't know all the abbreviations my cycle is usually 28 days and I am now 4 days late. All tests have been negative, I have no symptoms apart from a funny taste in my mouth which might just be in my head because I want to be pregnant.

LittleOne76 · 22/02/2014 10:34

Hi - tested again yest at 3 days late and bfn. Still no AF..... I am going to try and wait until at least a week late before testing again.

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ThingsThatGoHumpInTheNight · 22/02/2014 10:42

I am cd36 today so 4 days late. Not testing today, might try again tomorrow. Fingers crossed some of us get bfps at least!

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babytinks89 · 22/02/2014 11:32

Bfn again this morning and now ran out of tests so i'm stopping! Af has to be here soon surely? Cd35 21dpo
Hmmmm

Fingerscrossed10 · 22/02/2014 13:00

I'm out!! AF arrived this morning!!
Just glad to get out of limbo land at the moment and feeling positive and determined for next month!
Fingers crossed for you guys xxx

Hibou7688 · 22/02/2014 13:09

Glad to find people in same position, since I came off pill my cycle has been 28, 31, 31, 28, 36, 37 and now I'm on cd 40! Three bfns so far but I don't know if I'm late or what as I'm yet to have a regular cycle! A friend in RL has suggested going to the docs just to see why I'm so irregular.

To make matters worse, I don't even know when/if I ov. I never get a dark line on the cheapys and my one attempt at using clear blue I got 8 days flashing and ran out of sticks before I got a peak!

buddhabee · 22/02/2014 13:23

add me in too, usually 26/27 day cycles since beginning of dec.

was due on the 17th - cd31 today, have done 2 tests one on wed that was a clear blue norm and this morning a clearbleu digi - big fat NOT PREGNANT - really thought since I'd left it that it would be a bfp.

how long are you waiting before going to the doctors for bloods?

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