CD20 - mild cramping - any ideas

[Ajords1]

Hello, TTC #1 so new to a lot of this. I have a regular 31 day cycle. Today is cycle day 20 and I have what feels like early AF cramping. Hubby been away a week (works offshore) but DTD regularly up until him going away - was fairly sure we missed my fertile window - does anyone have any ideas/suggestions? Thank you xxx

It's 11 days before af due. If you don't know when you ovulate, it could be ovulation? Or just cramping leading up to AF.
Have you used opks as if you have a regular cycle they may help pin point ovulation.

going by online ovulation calculators i should have ovulated at some point w/c 3rd Feb (Day hubby went away so i was annoyed). As i say, i am really not expecting a BFP this monrth - but this cramping is just odd and wondered what it could be. Could be early cramps leading to AF but dont usually feel anything until the day before. x

Those online calendars are only for text book people, so it's hard to know for sure.
It's just a waiting game. Could be ovulation, could be early pregnancy, could be early AF symptoms.
Good luck.

Yes, i suppose you are right - they are only meant as a guide. Thanks for replying. this TTC is not as romantic as you think lol ;)

Oh god no. It's frankly crap. I want someone to wave a wand at me!

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