All aboard for a positive September

[Natty1806]

I know its only just the start of August but my next AF is not due until 5th September ish.

Sorry to hear AF has arrived for others that have to join me but here's hoping for lots of BFP's this month.

Oh Pinkranger, I am so sorry to hear your news. How many weeks pg were you?
Thinking of you. xx

Good evening all. Just dropping in to see what is happening with everybody and to update on what is happening with me. Pinkranger, I am so sorry for your sad news. I was on the positive July thread too, had my first ever bfp, but sadly had a m/c. You're in good company on this thread, I will be thinking of you.

I'm currently on CD12 and frankly I am a bit fed up. I always ovulate on CD12, have EWCM days 10-12 and have ovulation pains on CD12, temperature shoots up on CD13. Not this month though. No CM at all, no ovulation pain, nothing. What has happened? Where's my egg? We've tried really hard, BDed every day from CD6 and something has gone wrong. I've never not ovulated before. I'm not stressed, had a normal 27 day cycle after my m/c and thought everything was fine.

Any ideas?

I had bang on 28day cycle for YEARS til I mc. then everything went bonkers and mc again shortly after. Then my hormones were so weird I stopped ovulating. I think having a mc affects the body more than you'd imagine. There's a chinese herb called dong quai thats good for balancing hormones which I've just remembered I used to get cycle normal in the first place when younger. Found it extremely effective so maybe it will help you? Wish I'd thought of it when I mc!!
Angsthase - check out dong quai too and see if its right for you??

Forgot to add that accupuncture kicks arse when it comes to sorting womens hormones!

evening all. bad day today, hormones going crazy, def having af in next few days.
this is how i can tell: me and dp where in shoe shop today, when dp says hes going to buy a pair of trainers aswell as shoes. i went completly off on one! i told him we couldnt afford it and if we cant afford a new coat for me (still wearing size 22 pregnancy coat ) then he sure as hell cant spend 25 quid on shoes. dp stormed out of shop and when i finally caught him up he told me they were on buy one get on free.
so a little hormonal...
thanks for all your comments guys, and have decided as we are not activly NOT concieving, i will just "happen" to get really randy around ov time ... then IM activly TTC but hes not... no pressure on him

Can I join you all for a positive September?! My birthday is September 8th and my wish is for everyone including me to get PG!

Manuka my hormones have gone crazy "chinese herb called dong quai" how much did it cost and how fast did it work, one other thing can you take it while TTC? Thanks chickxx

alisteal welcome mylove xxxx

NattyandThomas- thank you for the welcome darlin

Feeling very hormnal, tired, feed up, crying, had enough, i feel like giving up, it 3 in the morning, food and sleep just lately is the last thing on my mind! soz had to get that out!! Hopefuly feel much better later!

How are you feeling today Babymad? Sorry to hear you are having a tough time lately. I dont quite know what to say, but wanted to let you know that i am thinking of you and have my fingers crossed for you and all the other ladies that September is a BFP month xx

Thanks for replying manuka. I don't think that it is the m/c causing the problem as my hormone levels are normal and I have had a completely normal cycle between the m/c and this cycle. I suspect that I will just have to accept that this is going to be an anovulatory cycle and it won't be my month for getting pg. I am fed up that once again it seems to be my body getting in the way of us having a baby. If I'm not losing a pregnancy I'm not even producing an egg to create one. I know it's ridiculous but I think it just gets to the stage where you can't keep telling yourself 'oh maybe next month'. I've been so positive for nearly a year and nobody in rl knows I'm trying so I can't share the disappointment.

Sorry to waffle!

Hello ladies - how are you all today?

Oh Babymad , everything will be fine, you are getting the BDing in and it won't be long, hang in there chick and try and enjoy the anticipation, I know it's hard but you are normally so upbeat! Hope you are feeling better now (hugs).

Hugs to you too Pinkranger, really sorry but you are welcome here and we'll look after you!

Manuka - what brand of royal jelly do you take? how does it help when TTC? I'll have a look on myspace.com. My Mum claims she is psychic, which we all find very amusing because we are not convinced she is (she gets furious if you show her presents wrapped up before Christmas because she says she can "see" what they are!!)

CD14 & no BD for me despite EWCM, DH came home after midnight, drunk and I was too tired and this morning he was too tired. I feel so frustrated (not that way ) I know that yesterday was probably our best shot and now we've missed it - sorry to be negative but I just don't think it can happen for me this month, we're just not BDing enough and for newly weds, that's a pretty sad state of affairs. It's not normally like this but we have just had no time alone, damn Dupree for pitching up just at the wrong time

Babymad - I had it all worked out, I was going to pick him up from the train station at 9pm as planned, ready pre-seeded!! (sorry if TMI ). Glad you got a quickie in before the in laws came!! (loved you dirty pun btw!)

SOH - sorry to hear you are all messed up, hope things calm down soon.

NattyandThomas - hope you fell better today. Liked your explanation of TTC, that's the same as us, I am, desperatley and he is just enjoying having a frisky wife (or not enjoying it....!)

Hi Alisteal - nice to have you on board and thank you for your very generous wish, lots of babydust to you too.

Hi Aprilmeadow - thank you for hoping for us all! how are you feeling? still grinning like mad?!

SOH, sorry your body's being awkward. I know how you feel. You think you know what's going on and when you're set to OV, then your body starts playing tricks on you. Maybe you're tensed up inside without realising it?

Pinkranger you've had to rejoin us. Sorry for your loss. Had a missed mc in May. Be kind to yourself xx

Babymad - I think you're stressing bigstyle and need to do something to take your mind off this whole thing. It just becomes THE thing that you think about day and night and it can't be good for our chances. Take care x

I know I need to do this. I'm thinking of using a massage voucher I got for my birthday and taking some time off MN!! Certainly if Sept isn't my month that's what I'm going to do. That will be 2 years from first starting to TTC, so time for a break.

Good luck girls xxx

Hi ladies

Thank you for you kind words
SOL - i was 10 weeks when found out, babay died at 6 )
We will not be using anything to try just pure love and not going to be dissipointed if not for the next few months , think i have joined the september one as its just nice when you have something to look forward to /aim for!
Good luck everyone xxxxx

Hello ladies!
Hope everyone is well and BDing!

Didn't take temp, well I did but was 1 1/2 hours late (36.7) and I had to rush downstairs for the toilet, don't know what I can do about that, I have DBed three days in a row I will try again tonight, I need the love more than the swimmers, if you get me! I brought some FRESH ROYAL JELLY CAPSULES last night, 3 in the morning like, off Ebay cost £5 with post, I'm giving them ago, I think you can take while TTC, can some one reassure me??

So I've brought the book, ov-tests x10, PG tests x5 and the royal jelly one months worth but can always buy more! Royal jelly royal jelly to me all got the same stuff in them.lol!

Cant stop crying, fell like you would not believe, if I'm not lucky this month I'm giving up cant go on like this, I do in fact think I'm depressed and I do need a break!

af arrived this morning. feeling down and depressed today. doped up to the eyeballs with pain killers another bad month

dp has chest infection so im still having to do everything despite barely being able to walk!

good luck to everyone else though lets hope september is a positive month for everybody xxxx

Just been reading about the ROYAL JELLY wow!!
It help with a list of thing including morning sickness, and other things like kidney diseases (which I have), ovarian insufficiency, promotes sexual rejuvenation, skin disorders (I have acne at the mo) so help with that would be nice,anxiety states, insomnia and anorexia, as well as a hormones balancer, and much more sounds great glad I'm giving to ago now!

Babymad - the royal jelly has to be good quality. A friend of mine gave me this website:

royaljelly

She used the stuff and says its the dogs.... It's quite expensive, but worth it if it delivers anything like the results she talked about.
Lets make this our month of all guns blazing before a month off!!

Hi everyone- just thought I'd drop in...

Angsthase- thanks for that info on Royal Jelly- I might give it a go...

Natty and Thomas- so sorry your af has come how're you feeling?

Babymad- you're feeling down aren't you hon- please try to do something for YOURSELF - I know this ttc can become an obsession/ your life- it is a bit for me too.

Pinkranger -i am SO sorry about you m/c- I was 10 weeks/ showing 6 too- know how you feel {{{{hug}}}

Mrsmc- how long is dupree staying for- sorry last night was not your night!!!

Welcome to Alistael- hope you're not here for long- for all the right reasons

Aprilmeadow- how're you today?

Hi too to SOH/SOL and Manuka- how are you?

I'm on cd25 and am not testing until cd 32 - my logest cycle- feeling very hormonal- doesn't feel right.

Angsthase Thanks for that most grateful, i've just started a convo about Royal Jelly over on health, so see if there is everyone else that can tell me about it, i would like to here back from people using it at the moment!

andi0411 i would be alright if my hormonesn would just sort them self out! but thats to much to ask isn't it

Babymad would it be worth a visit to the docs- see what they have to say- i feel for you- hate to think of you upset and all that.
Let me know what you find out about Royal Jelly- would def be interested my love
xx

Babymad would it be worth a visit to the docs- see what they have to say- i feel for you- hate to think of you upset and all that.
Let me know what you find out about Royal Jelly- would def be interested my love
xx