Afternoon ladies, hope you are all well, BDing and keeping up the good vibes! I have managed to resist coming on here until this afternoon, seem to be seriously addicted to talking to you all!
Interesting stuff about the dreams Tili. I had a boyfriend once who kept dreaming that his teeth were falling out. He bought a dream book and it said that he was worried about losing someone close to him. We broke up about 6 months later!
Hello NattyandThomas - hope you are ok, horrible when you argue about such sensitive things. My sister has just had a home water birth and it went perfectly, in fact, she had him in 5 hours. She was so pleased, her first baby's birth was all a bit of a shock as he was a month early and she went into labour on the Tube!
Hello Natty - those tests you got sound really reasonable, which site did you get them off? Hope AF coms soon so you can have your fresh start
Hello Andi - yes, feeling a bit calmer today thanks especially as we managed to squeeze a BD in this morning. I don't want to come out and say to DH how important the next few days are, I would rather we just BDed a lot but it won't be as much as it would be if we were both aware of the fertility aspect. It's not that he doesn't want a baby but he thinks conceiving should be easy and I don't want to rain on his parade yet and put him under pressure. Loved you sign off, highly amusing - in any other circle, that would be immensly offensive!
Oh Babymad - you are a glutton for punishment going on the Ante Nat threads, I have never been on, keeping well clear until my time comes. Talking of things arriving, my package did! See what you mean about the pre-seed! odd shape!
This is going to be far tmi but I do have to ask, I don't have any issue with lubrication only with EWCM so if I use the pre-seed, will I not be swimming in two typs of lubricant making things a bit er squishy?! Did you feel any difference? It's odd that you are getting those positive OVs isn't it? your temps don't seem to suggest that you have OVd yet because there is no thermal shift, do you normally experience one? (or is this your first chart - can't remember sorry!)
Hiya Angshase - Toni's book suggests that if you have not conceived after 4 cycles of charting and have bedded on the best days etc, you should seek medical help and the fact that you have all that info about yourself will be very useful to the Drs. That said, this is only my second cycle charting and I am finding it really helpful already. It doesn't stop the off the wall day
dreams that I might be pregnant now but I know for sure that I am not so I can't get all excited over nothing.
I am CD12 today and though I OV on CD16 last month, I think it might be earlier this month from the way I feel and what I can see. I am very huffy and tired though but I think that is external factors and not any hormonal issue!
Baby dust to all!!