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Anyone hanging around with a bfn and no af?

146 replies

dildoos · 23/01/2014 20:26

Waiting around 3 days late bfn and awaiting the af so I can get right back on with ttc! I have a monitor to try out and can't start til it comes!! Anyone else waiting the inevitable?

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tinaw20 · 10/02/2014 19:15

I'm on CD40 and still no AF! More bad cramps today tho so I refuse to test as I know what the result will be....

Saharap2 · 10/02/2014 23:48

My suspected AF coming turned into definite AF making it a 46 day cycle. No idea when I should be expected to ovulate this month then. Might start OPKs.

Groovester · 11/02/2014 00:41

Missed AF was due Jan 20th. Think this makes me at about cd 50 now?! Next AF (going by original 28 day cycle) should be due on Feb 17th I think? (A week today.)

The whole thing is nuts although as time has gone on I have calmed down and stopped thinking about it 24/7. Hoping it's just been a big fat blip! X

guinnessgirl · 12/02/2014 12:14

Hi all, can I jump on? TTC DC2, cycle 3 and AF is now a full week overdue. Usual cycle around 30 days, now at day 37. Last POAS on Sunday and getting sorely tempted to try again... think I may have OV'd a few days late but it's all so vague and uncertain. TBH I wouldn't mind seeing AF now just so we know where we're at! Fed up!

Groovester · 13/02/2014 21:26

Any news guiness?

Still no AF here. Going by previous history (apart from last month's "blip") I should be due on Monday. But who knows? Refusing to test for another wee while yet. I spent too much money poas last month! We have continued to try in the sense of lots of unprotected bd but don't even know if I've ovulated!
I do have heavy sore tatas though. The mystery continues...

Anyway, everyone on this thread can empathise with your situation. It's frustrating, worrying and exhausting too xxx

guinnessgirl · 13/02/2014 22:04

clearly I just needed to post on this thread to summon AF! LOL. Started this evening. At least I know what's what now! Grin

Groovester · 15/02/2014 08:39

Glad you have some relief about things. No news here yet.

:0/

Treaclepie19 · 15/02/2014 09:20

I'm in this boat too... 18/19dpp. No af. Bfn.

Reckon my cycle is going back to normal which would mean af today. Sort of want it to turn up so i know at least one way or the other!

Treaclepie19 · 15/02/2014 09:21

Woops *dpo

tinaw20 · 15/02/2014 09:32

BFP for me this morning Grin

guinnessgirl · 15/02/2014 13:54

ahhhh congrats Tina! Smile Thanks

Saharap2 · 15/02/2014 19:07

Congratulations Tina!

Groovester · 15/02/2014 21:13

Wonderful news Tina. Woo hoo xxxx

shiv1987 · 16/02/2014 01:25

I have been stuck in limbo for ages cycle day 63 missed 2 periods n negative tests and I am also like clockwork unless I'm pregnant b

babytinks89 · 16/02/2014 10:24

15dpo bfn and no af appearing yet.....
fed up now :(

Treaclepie19 · 16/02/2014 11:05

And me babytinks! :p
19/20dpo. Come on af! Never thought id say it.

Groovester · 16/02/2014 20:29

Fingers crossed for all of you shiv, baby and treacle - hope you get some resolution soon. Believe me I can empathise. I am due AF tomorrow (first one since before Christmas!) and refusing to test until next weekend if it doesn't show because last month was unbearable with the uncertainty and all of the BFNs. My boobs are still heavy and sore...

Watching Call the Midwife isn't helping to appease my desire off a baby :0(

JSBNYC · 17/02/2014 14:29

I was due AF on 1st feb and still no show. Have had many BFN. Stressing out about it. We only decided to TTC from January and now AF decided to dissapear. had some blood tests today so we will see.

Treaclepie19 · 17/02/2014 15:43

I've just started a thread about this too.

When should you get your results? Let us know how you get on!

sam1426 · 17/02/2014 17:25

Can't believe i'm actually having to seek advice. i'm 37 with twins who are 17 yrs old Surprised. yes shock to read even worse typing it. i'm regular every 25 days for 2 days have been for years. i have had symptoms for the past 16 days and i NEVER get any sign of AF other than the water gain 2 days before she arrives. i've suffered with sickness. peeing to the point its annoying me. tingles left side near hip .cramps backache. my large breast are even larger which my OH loves (greedy git) and they are so tender i cant sleep on my front. i have heaps of ewcm (tmi) i've taken a few tests BFN. but i'm now 5 days late. these are all something i never suffer with.

babytinks89 · 18/02/2014 20:59

Going insane!!
16dpo cd31
No af no bfp, driving me insane!

Groovester · 19/02/2014 16:57

Hi everyone. Well I am now 3 days late with Feb AF. No signs of it at all thus far. I have not had a proper period since December. Last month's was a blink and you'd miss it affair. Still waiting until the weekend to test so I will be a week (and a month!) late. Really tired and have sore boobs but after all of the BFNs last month, I'm now not sure that it isn't all in my head. I'm putting off testing because it's so deflating.

Groovester · 20/02/2014 19:35

Ok. After a few days of being very tired, I caved and tested. One of the cheapie Amazon ones. Very faint line. Husband sees it too. I'm not convinced though. Will maintain original plan and test again at the weekend with a better test before confirming anything but I feel slightly excited!

Groovester · 21/02/2014 19:25

Tested twice today with first response tests. 2 bfps!!!
It looks like this could be real people!

MrsS82 · 21/02/2014 19:45

Fantastic news Groovster, congratulations. SmileThanks