A question about ttc after early miscarriage...

[bronya]

For those who've done it, did you test when you expected BFP, or wait for AF? I'm really tempted to just see if I can get through two missed AF's with the pregnancy still intact before testing (and then filling in the form for the midwife etc). Would that be a problem? I just feel that then, I'd not be so disappointed, it'd just be a 'late' AF?

I see what you are saying, and tbh I don't test until 3/4 days late now. But there's been a few times I've been about to test and AF has come a bit heavier than usual iykwim and it's been as upsetting.

I don't think it will lessen any pain you may feel at a loss to wait until 2 missed periods tbh. The hope of a pregnancy will be there either way. Not before AF I think is the best course.

Meant to add dont forget is totally normal to be very late or miss a period WITHOUT being pregnant. I've had that more than once too