New Year, New Hope. Jan Bus (part3)

[EnglishGirlAbroad]

Hop on board thread 3 of the Jan bus! Wishing you all lots of luck for a bfp filled new year!!

[missmrsmummy]

Just a question about ov: I got my smiley OPK on Sat am but had sore swollen boobs yesterday (they'd been a bit sore a few days)

Same happened last cycle

Does this mean I ov'd yesterday? Or can this symptom happen a few days after ov?

Dtd Fri, Sat, Sun, Mon and last night so hopefully covered anyway!

[DoctorDonnaNoble]

I'm sitting here in floods of tears. It just feels so unfair. A colleague's due to go on paternity leave any day and I know he cheated on his partner and takes drugs and if I see him I'll either cry or want to punch him (it's his second with her), I know it's not natural but I just feel such a failure at the moment.

[misstiggiwinkle]

Woke up this morning feeling pretty nauseous following a completely unprovoked episode of uncontrollable tears last night - dh is convinced that I'm a 'crazy pregnant lady' (his words) but I feel that at 2dpo it's really too early to be having symptoms... When do most start getting actual symptoms? I'm in my first cycle so am a little clueless!

[spinningirl10]

Doctor...big hugs to you. It's hard ttc and especially after a mc. Don't lose hope it will happen again for you and you're not out this month yet. How many dpo are you?

[misstiggiwinkle]

Oh Doctor, you poor thing, that sounds like an awful situation to be in. big hug

[mrsb87]

Donna its perfectly fine to feel that way, im sure if any of us were in your situation we'd be reacting the same. Unfortunately it feels like everyone who doesn't deserve good things to happen to them, it happens to.
Chin up chick, got have some choccy. Keep positive, I know its going to be hard. Sending hugs x

[DoctorDonnaNoble]

Spinning - I don't track that so no real idea. I use a period tracker which had AF due on 12th. If nothing by 20th. I'll try again. Think AF will turn up today - I 'm so ridiculously emotional!

[DoctorDonnaNoble]

Mrs b I may have breakfasted on about 75g of chocolate

[EnglishGirlAbroad]

MissMrs - for me sore boobs are always after ov.

Doctor - I really feel for you, I'm sure it must be heart breaking. I'm worried if might possibly be an emotional wreck too if AF gets me this month. After a mc another pregnancy really feels like the only thing that will heal you. Sending you lots of hugs and luck. You're not out yet hun. X

[Moffit]

So sorry for you choccy hope you get some answers from the bloods!!

Congratulations to becca and rubyshoes good luck for happy and healthy pregnancies!!

I'm jumping off this bus now, had a bfn yesterday and AF arrived this morning will join the February bus when I get over my disappointment!

[spinningirl10]

Mofit....sorry af got you

I've just hopped over to Feb bus, I'll save you a seat for when you're feeling ready.

[Choccywoccydodah]

Thanks ladies again.
And thank you for taking the time to explain sleeping. So sorry for your losses, such an awful thing to have to go through.

I've been to have my bloods first thing, they drained me of 7 pots of blood so hopefully I'll get some results this afternoon.
Feeling a bit better but still pretty shit. Had a minor argument with dh this morning and it just sent me over the edge. He shortly apologised and gave me a hug which made me feel better.

Mil and fil just came to collect ds for the day, so I'm off out to visit a friend who had an op on Monday, so we can have a good cry together and lots of shit food. She had her first step of ivf appt Tuesday while she was still in hospital.

Hope the rest of you are ok this morning.
Come on, let's get some more September babies being made!! Xx

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Hi choccy. Enjoy your day with your friend and enjoy your cry.xxx

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Sorry posted too quickly there. Enjoy your cry as we all know a cry does you the world of good. xx

[allchatnicknamesgone]

Haven't jumped on the buses for a while myself, but just wanted to send choccy a big sorry from the bottom of my heart. It is completely heart wrenching to suffer 3 mc's so close to one another, but you are doing amazing and you will be ok. Don't stop loosing hope and do exactly what you are doing and just keep going on with life. xx
Waves to everyone else who are on the ttc marathon x

[mama31]

Sorry for those with bfns's and af's rude arrival! :(

Choccy your an inspirational lady....honestly!! just super!!!! Stay strong! And good luck with results! X

Waves to allchat ;) hey there! :)

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Yes indeed mama. Choocy is certainly insparational. When I suffered my loss I was all for giving up but D.P talked me round. I still do get fearful that something could go wrong again but you can't base your life on fear or none of us would do anything would we.
AAARRRGGHH back in limbo land again. I woke up this morning after A.F's intrusion with only spots of blood on my towel and watery blood meaning my period has slowed down. At least with a straight forward period you know what's going on.
D.D going out later on after school and I've had a few days off work so D.P is coming down at 4 before he goes to work for an hour of baby making. Well you have to fit it when you can and although I am very very unlikely to be fertile at the moment. It does no harm to practice. xx

[sazzlehopes]

Hi allchat nice to see you here.

Spinning so sorry AF found you, I know you weren't hopeful this month, but I hope that next cycle goes really well for you and your DP can relax and you get lots of dtd KOALA style! x

Choccy - who knows if this is helpful but a friend of mine who like you fell pg 'easily' but lost 2 very close together had to inject herself daily to make baby stay put? Not sure with what exactly but fx it is working and she is into her 3rd trimester now. She had a breeze with her first pg so the mc she suffered were very odd. Hope this helps you, and glad you had all your bloods done today so you get some results soon.

Ginger hows things? Have you had you results yet?

Moffit sorry that af got you too.

[LH1981]

Hi Ladies,

Choccy hope you're holding up ok, thinking of you. xx

Well, I just had a dating scan and now I'm all worried and stressy. Doctor couldn't see anything. She said there's 3 possible reasons. 1 is ectopic, which she ruled out. 2 is early miscarriage, which again, she said is unlikely as I've had no bleeding and the 3rd reason would be because it's just too early.

So, seeing as I only just got my bfp on Sunday (and confirmed with digi on Tuesday), then I'm hoping that's why. So all that limbo was just that, a missed period and caught in December. Really early days then, and so now just so anxious for all to be ok.
Had bloods done and have to go back Saturday to repeat so they can make sure that the levels are doubling. Fingers crossed very tightly.

[DoctorDonnaNoble]

It's what happened to me. Message me if you want any info

[EnglishGirlAbroad]

Fingers crossed for you LH, I'm sure you'll be fine.

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Yay I'm out of limbo. A.F back with a vengence. Now, that's something I thought I'd never say, but at least I know where I stand. xxx

[lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout]

Although I have to say my body really does confuse me at times. xxx

[barmybunting]

choccy I'm so sorry to read your update. You are so positive, I have immense admiration for you. I only wish it wasn't due to such a crappy situation. Thank goodness the gp is running tests. Please let us know how you get on.


As a random question, Dr google is giving me conflicting advice, there's a surprise . But can anyone clarify- does everyone get visible implantation bleeding with pregnancy or not? ie. if you don't have it, does it mean you aren't pregnant or is it more unusual that it appears at first glance? Thanks!

[Knottyknitter]

Aha, new thread! Hi gals!

Choccy, I hope you get some answers with your results - are you getting a gynae referral regardless or depending on bloods? Might be worth going and speaking to the specialists?

We've been thwarted this time round by hideous low back pain at cd 15. Not charting or ov testing as I know that will send me to the brink, but devastated to have 3 mid cycle days where I couldn't stand DP turning over in bed, let alone dtd! Feeling better slowly though, and it's not over till AF arrives...