trying again...... 2014

[babytinks89]

hi all,

the last time I was on this was back in november when I miscarried my first child at 10 weeks.
it was such a shock as we found out really early at around 2+ weeks.. we hadnt been trying but we where both so happy!

the nurses and doctors told me if we where to try again to let myself get my first cycle first then try again.
I got this mid december.
I have this period tracker app on my phone that I follow that tells me my ovulations day and fertile day... hoping having sex on these particular days will help my chances..
I am due my second cycle on or around the 14th jan which Is next tuesday, so I'm a little scared as I really want to concieve again asap and hope my period doesnt come...

has anyone else been in this situation, and what did you do?
any advive would be appreciated

Hey, I haven't had a miscarriage but have had chemicals the last two months, I was really upset so I can't imagine what you went through.

This month I'm temping , using opks, phone app , pre seed and dtd everyday if we can if not the every second day I'm getting desperate.

Good luck and lots of Baby dust to you x

thanks you mrsmorrison
all the best to you too! keeo me uodated

hey, sorry about your miscarriage. I had one myself in November at seven weeks. had a period last month and was desperately wanting t b pregnant this month esp as we DTD on a positive opk!

hi smorgas, I know the feeling. sorry im not great with the breakdown of words lol... any joy yet?
im due my second cycle today... if not here by friday going to take a test..
wish me luck!

I very much wish u look! after spotting for days I think I have properly come on now... its like when u don't bleed your walking on air thinking your prego then u spot and your miserable..then it stops a bit and u feel better then it gets worse again!
did u spot through your last pregnancy if u don't mind me asking?

I never had any spotting any sickness nothing! almost didnt feel lik I was was a strange feeljng. was tired had headaches a lot and sore lower back and heartburn that was all really... nausea but never came to anything! then 4 days before I miscarried we went to the hosp for a emergency scan as I started heavily bleeding this was the start of it for me sadly.. :(
nurse said give yourself 1 cycle...get body back to normal and try again, so here we are :)
my last cycle lasted 7 days from 17th - 23rd decmeber.. ovulation day on my app states the weekend of 27th-30th so we tried again then and a couple times week following.. cycke due agaij today as per 28 day cycle but nothing yet.. if no cycle by fri-sun I will take a test and hope for the best

2 days past af and no sign of af or any pregnancy signs....... this wait is killing me! should I take a test? or wait until friday to give my cycle a couole extra days as not even sure if its a 28 day cycle I have or not.... soo impatient!!

Sorry to see your experience
I would say leave testing as long as you can bare too as you will get a more accurate result ! Wishing you all the best x

Well i caved and tested yesterday and again this morning still a BFN!

31 days past last period, no sign yet! Will be 2 weeks past Ov day in December.... So thinking is no sign of period on sunday i'll re-test.... Maybe too early still!

Waiting is killing me ??

How frustrating , do you chart, temp, use opks, check your pants for stringy clear stuff? Do you know exactly when you ovulated? May you have ovulated later? Af arrives 14 days after ovulation ( if luteal phase is normal???) which if you ovulated on day 17 not 14 you may not be late yet? I have a 28 day cycle to the hour however if under weather , too miserable about not conceiving or stressed in days leading up to ovulation it waits and waits which then makes me later for af. Could this be the case? X

Hi Dil.....
I ovulated on the 28th December and still no sign of period since. My last period started on 17th - 23rd december ovul on 28th.... Second period was due on Tuesday this week and still nothing, but has since only been 3 weeks since OV and still a BFN! so going to give it another couple days, see if the AF follows. i've had weird tingly pains in my lower abdomen they come and go... So i just haven't got a clue whats going on really ...