hello, new on here, Just needed someone to talk to who isnt friend/family etc. My partner and I are going to start trying for baby, I already have two (10yrs and 13yrs, from doomed marriage) and now im ancient at 40!!!. Its what ive always wanted but now I come to it im really nervous because im a 'older' mum, and ive just got some independance back. My heart says yes, yes, yes, my head says no wait and think/worry!!!! its on my mind all the time :(