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Um hello, newbie, ttc, needing a place to talk to people :)

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Fruityb · 05/01/2014 20:23

I've been reading the site for ages but decided to sign up as need an outlet and place to talk as ttc is quite secret and it's not something I have loads of people I could talk about it with. Plus I'm quite shy and my ovaries aren't something to bring up at social gatherings!
I'm 31, came off pill in October and me and boyfriend have been ttc since. I didn't know how long it would take to get back to normal as had been on pill for eleven years. Turns out it took four weeks, and am now on third AF since coming off, so annoyingly normal in one way! I'm getting my head round all this tracking stuff but don't want it all to get clinical with the fella as it takes the fun away!
So just wanted to say hi and hopefully share in people's stories. It's not all as straightforward as I always thought, and I'm always the one that would start panicking something was wrong with me. I'm pleased I found somewhere I can just write it down if nothing else.
So, hi, and hopefully can take some good advice away.

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Helen87 · 24/01/2014 08:30

I'm definitely up for that! How are you mrsb? Feeling ok?

mrsb87 · 24/01/2014 08:34

Still got cramps in the morning and serious nausia. Other than that ok really. Still peed off about dh working on our week off. Probably going bto be a bit sour about that for a while yet.
How far into tww are you helen?

Hazelbrowneyes · 24/01/2014 08:45

I think I'm on the 2ww. I should be, unless body is playing a cruel trick on me and I'm on for a long cycle.

Lots of cramps really low down over the last 2 days, I've got a headache, sore boobs, nausea & I feel like I've been run over by a bus. Trying not to read too much into it as I could just be coming down with a cold or AF could come early.

BFP/AF due 31st Jan/1st Feb going on last months length of cycle but I think I ov'd 4 days earlier this month so could be due around 28th. Either way, I'm not POAS until 2nd Feb at earliest.

KikiThePea · 24/01/2014 10:15

Morning all!
I'm in agreement about starting our own pregnancy thread!
After over a week of feeling absolutely fine (other than mega tired) nausea appears to be my new best friend - hopefully this won't last too long. I got my maternity exemption card for prescriptions in the post this morning along with a date for the dating scan - I seem to be collecting a pile of paperwork already and haven't even seen the midwife!

Sorry to hear about dh working, mrsb - I hope it works out better than currently expected!

binkybunny · 24/01/2014 10:19

Just a little correction on my current status... I am POAS tomorrow but it will be 3 days before af not after! Can't wait! Off to buy my pee sticks at lunch time Grin

KikiThePea · 24/01/2014 10:26

Yay, binkybunny! I hope wherever you are has more sticks available than when I popped into Boots here earlier (on the way for more gaviscon.) and noticed there was one solitary pregnancy test sitting on the shelf! Clearly people have been rather...ahem...busy recently!

weebairn · 24/01/2014 10:29

Ah, don't fret about all the info mrsb. The thing about pregnancy is it takes FUCKING AGES, so you have a really long time to find out everything. You don't need to do anything really. For all the obsessing we do on these forums, there's not much we can do to change anything!

You'll get a "booking in" appointment with a midwife around 8 or 9 weeks and they'll go through everything with you.

Child birth is miiiiiles away

Sorry you're feeling so ropey Kiki, and mrsb too. First couple of months can be a bit shit. It does pass.

Well my period is 6 days late now. I am exhausted (though I am on night shifts, so). I also feel a bit nauseous. Going to test tomorrow…. just want to get last shift out the way first!

Helen87 · 24/01/2014 11:42

mrsb87- I'm still dtd. Only cd8!

Hazel- good luck with the tww!

Helen87 · 24/01/2014 11:44

Sorry binky, think I've got you and weebairn mixed up?!

Hope you're feeling better soon Kiki Smile

mrsb87 · 24/01/2014 12:27

Thats the best bit helen!
Im buying a clearblue diga later so we can have an idea about how far along I am. Looking forward to finding out.

Kiki my nausia is horrid, constant but still hungry which is confusing.

Exciting times weebairn, fx for a bfp soon!

weebairn · 24/01/2014 15:31

Could not wait till tomorrow.

BFP! It's faint but unmistakable.

So happy I am crying.

Ladymillion · 24/01/2014 15:39

Congratulations weebairn! Thanks

Hazelbrowneyes · 24/01/2014 15:47

Congratulations!

Ladymillion · 24/01/2014 17:37

AF has gone, bring on the SMEP!

... And so the crazy madness of TTC begins again Smile

mrsb87 · 24/01/2014 18:17

Yay!! Congrats weebairn!
I bought a clearblue digital today, I know I should wait and test in the morning but I want to know now! Well thats work finished for a week off, and had a good end to a rather rubbish week by an increaseinmy contracted hours AND every other weekend off. Well chuffed Grin

binkybunny · 24/01/2014 18:49

Yay congrats weebairn!

And to Mrsb on the work front.

No shortage in Boots Perth Kiki, we're obviously not as 'busy' as where you are! I got a bit of a selection including some Clearblue digi ones to use when I get a BFP.

Just waiting til morning now... Have you held out MrsB?

I'm having a non alcoholic beer at the moment. What's anyones thoughts on these. They contain tiny amount of alcohol but do you think its ok to have one or two?

mrsb87 · 24/01/2014 19:54

I think you'll be ok. I had a crabbies the other day.
Yes I'm holding out.dh has hidden it as im driving him crazy with all these pee sticks!

Helen87 · 24/01/2014 20:01

Congratulations weebairn!! 4 bfps now SmileSmile

Gennz · 24/01/2014 20:47

Massive congrats weebairn!!!

Well AF is due today and there's no sign of her - no spotting or anything and I don't feel pre-menstrual. But poas this morning and BFN... I'm about 11dpo I think so maybe too early?

I just want to know either way!! Gaaahhh

It's a gorgeous sunny day here and I'm sitting by the pool so things could be worse!

binkybunny · 25/01/2014 06:56

Well after waking up at 5am with Dh's alarm going off as he had forgotten to reset it for the weekend, I managed to resist my poas moment for an hour only to get a BFN Sad.

Still 3 days til af due so not giving up just yet!

Gennz I'm so jealous of you sitting by the pool. You definately have the best consolation for a BFN!

mrsb87 · 25/01/2014 07:54

Ah yea thats it gennz rub it in why don't you Wink
Doing my digi test now....pregnant, yes I know that bit...

mrsb87 · 25/01/2014 07:57

........1-2 weeks! That narrows it down to us dtd on either 12th or the 14th!

Helen87 · 25/01/2014 08:16

Haha loving the live commentary mrsb! Congratulations Smile

Binky- you going to resist testing again until after AF is due?

Gennz- I am beyond jealous!

Ladymillion · 25/01/2014 08:49

Ahh Mrsb I bet it's so nice to see it written in actual words!

Helen87 · 25/01/2014 08:57

Where abouts in this cycle are you Lady?