Worried...can anyone help please?

[Katief1986]

Right...hoping someone can help me! I've been so daft!!
Started my latest pill pack 2 days late and I've missed 1 in the first week and 3 this week, week 2. I'm not here for a lecture id just like shared experiences please, I'm 27 and I'm in a very happy relationship, just over 2 years :) I work shifts hence the silly forgetfulness, but I have to say I'd be very happy if I was pregnant!

Anyway I've just missed 3 pills, 25th, 26th 27th, and tonight I've got pretty bad cramp:( no bleeding that I can notice. To make it worse I've read that missing the first 2 pills of a pack can greatly affect protection. My body is acting crazy anyone else been in a similar situation?

From what I can tell I should have ovulated over the last few days (indeed if that is even possible on marvelon??)

Sorry that's so complicated, suppose what I'm asking is, do the cramps mean anything?

Btw my guy doesn't seen quite ready for parenthood, whilst I'm really craving a child :( bummer.

Like I say please don't judge, I work horrendous hours for the ambulance service my mind slips, I'm just wondering if anyone missed first pills of packets really.

Any replies greatly appreciated :)

Xxx

first of all, don't panic

the cramps could be anything, have you eaten anything out of the ordinary recently? sounds simple but when you get focused on a worrying possibility, obvious answers go out of your head.

take a breath, you seem similar to where i have been for years in that you want a child but you don't think you are at the right point, relationship wise, but your body is shouting at you.

do a pregnancy check, is the obvious answer, i'd suggest having the conversation with your partner as well tho. i did, expecting the worst response..he's now told his entire family and we're not even pregnant yet!

wish you all the best x

Aw thanks, yeah I do feel like I'm going a little crazy tbh. My best friend has just given birth, my other best friend told me she was expecting yesterday, my body is absolutely screaming at me. I never understood my friend (who's now pg) when she told me how upset she was getting after finding out her sister was pg, thought she was acting very weirdly and being a bit selfish. Now I do, it's uncontrollable. I was randomly crying the other day and I can't bear to tell my bf why, I think he has an idea cos it was after someone else's baby news, but he'll think I'm nuts.

He's amazing though he's trying his hardest to sort is a home ASAP, I think others may have left by now!

I'm still cramping a little bit this morning rumbles here and there, no bleeding though. It was v intense last night to the point id taken cocodamol.

Thank you for your reply it's lovely that other people know what I'm going through ! Xxx