Hi,
I had a very early mc in July, which turned into ectopic and was then considered to be a 'pregnancy of unknown location'..period came back at the end of August and test turned negative about 6 weeks after the mc. We've been trying again since then. No luck, yet. It's the first month that I'm using cb sticks again (the flashing smiley ones). My AF has mostly been regular, steadily increasing back to the 33/34 days. Last month only took me to 24 days, though, while the one before that was 34 days...which is why I'm trying the sticks again...(because, how the heck am I supposed to plan anything with AF crashing through the door unannounced or with such delay)
So, got empty circle on cd11, cd12,...then flashing smiley on cd13 and now solid smiley on cd14. Is this wrong? Is it supposed to be flashing for a while longer or is my LH surge just really short? I used to get the solid smiley on cd17/18 before the mc,...since my luteal phase is only 12 days.
It's starting to irritate me a little. Why can this not be a little be easier? We dtd on cd13,...we tried today, but DH is just too tired (I could really slap him sometimes). We will dtd again tomorrow with DH under strict instruction to increase his caffeine intake for the day. (He doesn't usually drink any...but he's usually really tired, too.) Do we still have a chance? I've tried the laid back 'every other day' approach,...but it didn't work, either (especially not with DH constantly being tired).