need some positive stories and a kick up the arse

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TTC number 2. I'm 37 and have been trying for about 18 months. Had no problems with number 1 but that that was before I hit 35. I know it is certainly possible to conceive after 35 but I'm losing hope. 2 early miscarriages and endless bfns. I'm starting to think I should settle at 1 and be thankful for my blessings. Any positive stories out there?

Hi, I've no advice to offer but didn't want to read and run. Have you takes to your GP and had any tests done?

We've only been trying for DC2 for 6 months (4 cycles) but DC1 was conceived second cycle so this already feels very drawn out to me. I'm having blood tests done as my cycles are all the place and I'm really worried there's something wrong . I'm "only" 34 but worried we've left it too long to try for #2 (I'd just turned 30 when I conceived #1).

talked to your GP (bloody auto-correct function!)