I mainly lurk on these buses rather than post but just wanted to reply to kitkat because I remember similarly getting confused when af didn't show up and I kept getting bfn when ttc our first dc.
It can take a while for your first real af to show up after the pill. Last time I came off the pill I got a bfp on about cd60 with no af at all after withdrawal bleed. I've recently come off the pill again trying for our second dc and am currently on about cd60 now and still no af and bfn yesterday. I have heard of people taking a few months to get their first proper af so I just test with an ic every second day and try to relax and not really expect anything.
Having said that I keep getting my hopes up thinking I feel symptoms. Starting last night my boobs feel fuller and sometimes a bit painful. This is definitely a symptom I remember from last time and something i haven't really had when not pregnant so I'm really hoping tomorrows test goes well. I hate getting my hopes up though because it's such a downer squinting at a blank test before work.
Sorry for the long post, I have enjoyed lurking on these buses and thought it was time I actually said hello. So excited for all the bfps! December is an awesome month!