Misssleepy and cotton....keeping fx that af doesn't show up for you!
I've just had a difficult conversation with my sister! She's 38 and has no children although she and her husband hoped to have a baby next year. She hasn't had any periods for quite some time and she came off the pill in April hoping they might return as she has been on the pill for 20years. So since April they have been having unprotected sex. I had said to her a few times that she should get back to the doctor and push for a hospital referral so she went today. To cut a long a story short the doctor thinks she is going through early menopause 
She has to have blood tests but can't get them done till the 20th and then has to wait 10 days for the results!
I feel so sad for her, she doesn't know I'm trying for a 3rd child and I know if it doesn't happen for me then I'm so lucky to have my two gorgeous children.
Her husband is lovely and they have been together for nearly 18years, he's told her not to worry until she gets the results from the blood test. I told her the same but she says her doctor was pretty sure that it is the menopause.
Anyway I don't know what I expect you to say, I just wanted to share. She doesn't want to tell anyone else until she gets her results, I'm keeping everything crossed that she gets a good outcome.....thanks for reading this very long post!!