Quick question ladies... If you were trying to conceive would you put hold on a wedding. Obviously in an ideal world I would conceive straight away, but we know thats not always possible. We want to get married in the next couple of years. If I wait until after the wedding then I would be hitting mid thirties, and really do not want to be waiting any longer. However if I put hold on a potential wedding I run the risk of either having 'bump' at wedding or a new born...ah dilemmas and it makes me feel really selfish to think like this.