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1 week late and 3 bfn....

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MrsCarridge · 11/11/2013 08:50

I know these sorts of threads have been done to death.... But oh my god how annoying is it? Late AF and you automatically think pregnant! But no such luck ) unless its late to show on tests? (check me desperately clutching at straws)!
I know I haven't asked anything just wanted to vent the frustration!

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CatsCantFlyFast · 11/11/2013 08:59

Did you definitely O on time? If you O'd late then strictly speaking AF isn't late. Hope you get the result you want

MrsCarridge · 11/11/2013 09:38

Im not testing when I ovulate at the minute, I've got an online tracker thing that gives a suggested ovulation date a but other than that im not checking. We wanted to do the "if ut happens it happens" attitude but it seems Im massively failing that frame of mind this week!

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mumtoacub · 11/11/2013 20:23

I am between 1-3 days late as my cycle is give or take a day here and there and got a bfn today with early predictor test. its so disheartening I have gone from being disappointed when AF arrived when expected to the torture of being excited then a flippin bfn.
I am clutching at straws too thinking maybe I will get a bfp tomorrow (but secretly knowing its just a matter of time until the witch shows up)

MrsCarridge · 11/11/2013 21:03

Its just so frustrating isn't it? My last period was 1-4th October. If im not pregnant then fair enough just wish AF would show up so I know where I am with it!

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mumtoacub · 11/11/2013 21:27

Exactly

GnomieGrace · 12/11/2013 07:20

Hey sorry to jump on your thread but I'm currently 20 days late with 3 BFN's I'm wondering at what stage I should go to the Doc's or should I just wait? And OP I feel for you!

MrsCarridge · 12/11/2013 08:54

Gnomie if this was a competition you would win! I did a frer this morning and still negative.

I suppose cooking an appointment with a doc wouldn't hurt gnomie, they might do blood tests or can give some advise?

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GnomieGrace · 12/11/2013 18:41

After 3 dizzy spells in 24 hours booked an appointment at docs, stupidly went for a pee before hand, she thinks I'm upduffed but with no test not able to say, sent me home with a test. Have to call her with results on thursday. My blood pressure has gone up drastically so don't know if that is a good sign or not!?! Just want to know!!

MrsCarridge · 12/11/2013 19:18

Its the not knowing isn't it? If that test is negative will ut be scans to see what's going on?

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GnomieGrace · 12/11/2013 19:41

Test is negative! Argh! Have a follow up with doc on Thursday. Don't know what next steps are.. Will let you all know!

mumtoacub · 12/11/2013 20:10

Oh gnomie how frustrating I am now 4 days late still bfn although I thought I saw a very faint line ( dh saw it too) but its not strong enough to be conclusive. Been googling the test ( predictor) all the reviews say its crap so I can't stop myself getting excited don't know how I am going to cope when AF arrives as I know it will.
By the way anyone got anything to add re predictor early tests?

MrsCarridge · 12/11/2013 20:40

Gnomie I often hear "it's not over till af turns up" so I'll keep my fingers crossed for U. Hope U get on at the docs ok. Keep me posted.
Mumtoacub...wow its looking positive for you. You must be struggling to not get excited! I'd be straight out to buy another test! Haha

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Crazycat77 · 12/11/2013 21:07

After years of regular cycles and tracking my best days via my phone app (yeah I know!) an exhausting month of dtd, af was 3 days late....I decided to buy a test....not pregnant and an hour later af shows up....gutted

lifehasafunnywayofhelpinguout · 12/11/2013 21:10

I know. It's so frustrating isn't it. It happened to me back in May. My period was delayed by 2 weeks. xx

GnomieGrace · 14/11/2013 17:07

Soo 5 BFN's and my doc is stumped, she wants me to wait another week and test again so I will but if I get another BFN I will insist on a blood test, in the meantime I am now also having hot flushes! Fun! Confused

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