The bangs turn into bfp's on the November bus! That's firework bangs you filthy lot...

[ThisIsMeNow]

10 BFPs!!

coco808 ttc#1 cycle 3
Grobagsforever ttc#2 cycle 1
LH1981 ttc#3 cycle 3
Dollydaydream27 ttc#1 cycle 1
justanotherforumname, ttc#1, cycle 1
Sparky321 ttc#3 cycle 2
Englishteacher78 ttc#1 cycle 4
Sparklesandfizz ttc#3 cycle 3
nicnacnicnac ttc#1 cycle 1
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2 cycle 3

64 awaiting BFPs!

MrsCarridge Ttc #1, cycle #3 bfp due 5th Nov
Heba1025 ttc #1 for almost 3 years cycle 3 post m/c bfp due 5th Nov
Wineandchoccy ttc #1, cycle #4, bfp due 6th Nov
SarahBumBarer ttc #3 cycle 1 bfp due 7th Nov
MundayCakes85 ttc #1 cycle 4 bfp due 8th Nov
Mrswalsh ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 8th Nov
Crazylady2013 ttc#1 cycle#3 bfp 9th Nov
theduchesse, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 10th nov
LePetitPont ttc #1 cycle 3 bfp due 10th Nov
Mumtoacub ttc #1 cycle 6 bfp due 10th Nov
DinkyMole, ttc#3 cycle 2 BFP due 10 Nov
plinkyplonks TTC#1 cycle #4 bfp due 11th Nov
SoMuchFruit ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due 11th Nov
Findingme ttc#2 cycle 4 bfp due 11th Nov
Karmalaa ttc#1 cycle 1 after mc bfp due 11th
Laptopgirl ttc#? cycle bfp 12th nov
ThisIsMeNow ttc #2 cycle 2 bfp due 12th Nov
ScienceGeekGirl ttc #1 cycle 8 BFP 12th Nov
Lessonsintightropes ttc #1, cycle 3, bfp due 13th Nov
Howly ttc#1 cycle 1 BFP due 13th Nov
SaltySeaBird TTC#2 cycle #2 bfp due 14th nov
Onelifeonechance, ttc #1 cycle 5 BFP due 14th Nov
ImNotAFlower ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due 15th Nov
Mama31 ttc 2, cycle 5, BFP due 15th Nov
LuckyStar1 ttc#1 cycle 1 post mmc bfp due 16th Nov
Babymamatobe ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due 16th Nov
Nottalotta ttc#1 cycle 5 BFP due 16th Nov
MovingOnUpduffed ttc #2 cycle 1 BFP 16th Nov
cottonwool4brains Ttc# 2 Cycle 8 (2 chem, cycles 4 & 7) Bfp 17 Nov
Funkymonk ttc#1 cycle 12 (4 post m/c) bfp due 17th Nov
Pocopearl ttc #2, cycle 2, bfp dure 20th Nov
ElCranko ttc#2 Cycle 1 BFP due 20th Nov
ItsSoFluffyImGonnaDie Ttc#1 cycle 2 bfp due 22nd nov
ELR ttc#3 cycle 4 BFP due 22nd Nov
DisneyDiva87 TTC #1 cycle 8(?) bfp due 23rd Nov
ImaginaryHat, ttc#1, cycle 7, bfp 23 Nov
Flymo79, ttc #1, cycle 5, BFP due 23 Nov
HalfPintLulu ttc#2 cycle 2 BFP due 24th Nov
justhayley, ttc#2, cycle 1 after mc, bfp due 25th nov
NeuroticSweetTalk Cycle#3 BFP due 25th Nov
keeponjuggling TTC #2 cycle 11 bfp due 25th nov
sazzlehopes ttc#2 cycle 12 bfp nov 26th
Skybluegirl33 ttc#1 cycle 4 BFP due 27th Nov
AnyFuckersfrogslegs35 ttc#4 cycle1 bfp due 28-30th Nov
Gnomiegrace TTC#1 Cycle#5 BFP due 29th Nov?
TwerkingNinetoFive ttc#2 cycle 3 bfp due 29th Nov
dontsqueezetheteabag TTC #1 Cycle 3 BFP due 31st nov
Aisha18 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due ?
barmybunting TTC #1 Cycle 2 bfp due ?
Punkypod, ttc#2, cycle 1, bfp due 5th dec
Refoca ttc #2 cycle #3 bfp due ??
wiggleginger, ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp ?
Lucyfluff ttc #4 cycle 1 post m/c bfp due ?
Vjones1985 ttc#1 cycle 4 bfp due ?
Bohemond ttc#1 cycle 1 post m/c bfp due ?
Violetsareblu ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due ?
DearDinah ttc#1 cycle 4/5 bfp due ?
Bloumer ttc#1 month 5/cycle ridiculous BFP ?
Flylikeabird ttc#2 cycle 1 bfp due ?
Hibou7688 ttc#1 cycle 1 bfp due ?
Newbie784 ttc#1 cycle 3 bfp due ?
Sausagesaurus lurking.....
SaraRB123 lurking.....
Littlemissy1234 lurking.....

Hopped off onto the December bus

Lime19
Owlie84
Leezl
Lifesgreatquestions
DuPainDuVinDuFromage
Kirstyd1
PinkHat1
Booisgreat
Missvaughan85
Keepswimming1
ADP007

Sorry mrsW and VJones that af got you

VJones, I know it's hard.....maybe take some time out eat chocolate and drink fx you get your bfp soon

Elcranko....I'll get on the laptop and have a look at your pics

Oh vj I'm so sorry You sound like you're feeling pretty hopeless and I can understand that. Let yourself just be sad for a couple of days and then pick yourself back up again. 11 days is better than before, it's moving in the right direction. Big hugs and gin

Mrswalsh and VJ, so sorry too,fx for December for you both x

Mama - You are a bad influence on me!!!! I have loads of IC but I'm away at a conference end of the week so doubt I will test then. Will be checking you all Friday morning though.
Symptoms so far include one random day of bleeding gums after flossing (even though I do this every day) and tender/sore breasts. My BBT has remained high so far (only my second month of temping so only have the previous month to compare to). Therefore, I will only POAS on Sunday if my temps do not drop! Will I resist the temptation before????

Elcranko Looks like a bfp to me!! :)

But I agree with Mama....you need to poas....a pg test! Do you have one for the morning?

Ok just looked elcranko....the lines look quite far down on the stick....im not sure if they are reliable!!!! Can you see my pics...its an old one which shows an evap line and thats a negative if it helps??!!

Try a diff test tmrw because your symptoms sound likr you are!!!!!

Thanks. I think it hurts so much because I thought I might be pregnant. Even my friend told her dh she thought I was yesterday :-(

Sazzle- just noticed that my BFP should be due 18/19th of this month,not sure why I said the 27th?? Sorry, must be going mad! Please could you change it at some point when you get a chance. Thanks x

I felt like that last month vj. I was absolutely convinced, so many symptoms but then AF arrived 11dpo. It was awful when AF arrived so I'm sorry that you are going through it too. It took me a couple of days but you will get past this feeling.

vj it's awful when you're so sure. I find making a plan helped me but only after a few days of being really low inc having a cry in my office at work. That was a low point.

I'm pleased you at least know the feeling, dinky. But of course it's a shame that we both had to experience it!!

What's your plan, m33r?

Skyblue if you have time to check in here on Friday! Then you have time to poas ;)

VJ it's so upsetting I know....i had that so many times when I truly believed I was pregnant....im not even entertaining the idea anymore as it's so soul destroying....im just hoping it happens but feel prepared (kind of) if it doesnt...I know that doesn't make you feel any better right now....i hope you will feel a bit better in a few days though x

Elcranko I hope you have a FRER for tomorrow morn??? How many dpo are you?

VJones I'm so sorry AF got you- thought we were going to be BFP buddies- I'm also 4 cycles lost pill and still waiting for cycle to regulate. Go get a big bar of chocolate and a winter Pimms and hibernate for a while x

mama I think that will have to be my approach for this month now. Not sure how to train myself not to think about it though.

munday What is your cycle like now, may I ask?

And skyblue I'm 7dpo and not feeling anything specific re symptoms :/ if I could have any symptoms I would like sore nipples...as I've never had those.. had every other symptom then af came!! :/ so just sore nipples followed by a BFP would be lovely!!!

Thanks for your kind words ladies, love you lot!

MrsW and VJ so sorry af got you. VJ I can see how upset you are and its totally understandable, its so disappointing when you think its your month and then af comes. But, 11 days is sooo much better than the 7 you were getting before, your body is obviously starting to readjust and I'm sure you'll be celebrating your bfp soon. Good luck on the December bus lovely.

VJ I always think about it, but I'm trying to remain realistic this time (for once) and I'm expecting af to arrive....but if I get a bfp then it's a bonus!! After 4 very disappointing cycles, I just have to remain in this mindset or ill be an emotional wreck :/ (again)

Vj M33R is the most proactive and inspirational person!! Make a plan!!! It def would help!!! :)

vj I am charting, temping, using cheap opks, have a stash of diggie opks, SMEP, drinking grapefruit juice and reading a conception book. I am telling myself everyday that it will happen. I have already started opk-ing (cd5).

I am doing this until February then we are just stopping and waiting for my hosp referral to come in (assuming I'm not of by then ... Which I will be of course!).

This has settled me considerably!

VJ mine have been all over the shop- 25, 42, 28 and now 31 days and counting. Tbh I can't remember what they were like pre birth control. Why did we all worry so much about getting pregnant on the pill?!?
I'll probably be along on the Decenber bus soon so save me a good seat

Oh and also preseed!

I doing EVERYTHING I have ever heard gets you pg. I'm month 12. I've had cycles ranging from 28days to 40. DH has been tested and I've had 21 day test...

Throwing EVERYTHInG I have at it. IncidentaLly I donmt necessarily think this is terribly healthy but the control got me out if my depression ...

Hang in there!

And thanks as always mama!

Lucy I see what lines you mean that are further down the stick, it's not those! There's a really faint line in between that darker one and the control line. It's definitely where the BFP line would be as I used these same tests when pg with my DD. I'm just not sure if it's a real line or an evap due to how faint it is?!

Mama I'm 10dpo today. I don't have a frer ! I'm going to see how I get on with the ICs in the morning and then buy a frer and a digi while I'm at the shops later on.

M33r I'm taking the opposite approach this time - the obsessing and clinical approach was going to cause a breakdown so I'm not doing any of those things and will see where that leads us!!

Munday - are your luteal phases normal?

Not sure tbh, only temped this month and last- was 12 days last month. Didn't use OPKs this month but FF says I'm 12dpo today