I just need to know.. Please help!

[greenpencils90]

Hi,

So, we are not ttc but got our dates mixed up a bit and think I could be pregnant. I would be so delighted if I was, we are ready to have a family but were waiting to do a few things first. Mainly me going to Brazil for a month in feb 2014 for gigs with my band!

Anyway, we DTD on day 10 of my cycle, I think I ovulated on day 14?... I then had strange bleeding/spotting (brown thick) on and off between day 16 and day 21. Feeling very tired and emotional, and sick with worry.

3 negative pregnancy tests, and I'm now a day late. I'm usually daily regular and I'm having no signs of a period at the moment. Having a lot of thick white stretchy cm (sorry tmi) today.

Any thoughts? I'm driving myself mad not knowing what's going on, and really just want to see if this is normal?

Thankyou!!

When did you take the tests? maybe get another and try first thing in the morning with FMU

I never ever got bfp before the actual day period was due. Only after even with the tests that claim 4 days early. Test again first thing in the morning, mid stream flow.

I took the last one last night. Will take another on day 32 which would be the day after my longest cycle. Also been thinking perhaps my mid cycle bleed was a very very early period... And that perhaps I'm ovulating again now? Got lots of signs that I would normally associate with ovulation (EWCM, low open cervix) this is all so confusing! I just want to know whether I can plan for a baby or plan for other things!

P.s Thankyou for replying, good to know others haven't had bfp before their due dates!

Your cervix shouldn't still be open if you're due AF around now and you're pg....but then again, when you're ovulating, it's normally high and open... Try again with a First Response with FMU.

So.. I took another test this morning with FMU and it's come back negative. this will be cycle day 33, so i am going to assume that I actually didn't have mid cycle bleeding, but a very early period. (Perhaps I did conceive but it wasn't viable so it was rejected 6dpo?) I'm going to stay off drink just incase I'm wrong, and just keep an eye on things, but I'm 99% sure I'm not this time. I have a doctors appointment on Monday as something unusual came back from my prolactin levels, so hopefully they will be able to shed some light. Thanks for all your replies.