Anyone else TTC and finding themselves a bit CBA to DTD?

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Just trying to fit all the acronyms in :) Seriously though, this pressure to DTD every other day during most of my cycle when we'd settled down to a happy 1/2 times a week after 5 years together is becoming really stressful. Ideas? Hints? Tips?

No ideas I'm afraid but I feel the same, and it's even a bit much for DH!

It's Knackering. Struggle not to make DP feel that we're doing it just because we have to.

Someone on another thread said just try and do it around 3 times a week - 2 over the weekend, and another mid week should do it...no idea if that's enough to hit the 'right' day though!

It's an absolute nightmare! We've been together for 11 years! I'm in my 2ww, and I think we're both relieved! We were going to try keeping going until the end of the month but it was actually putting an enormous strain on us. He was actually turning me away this month, was hurt like hell. I know it's harder for them in a way because they actually have to get it up and we only have to open our legs, but getting him interested is the problem. He wants us to go back to just being relaxed about when to dtd, but I've armed myself with all the ttc info now and it's hard not to get obsessive when you know 'it's time!'
I said I don't care if he watches porn to get him going....god it's sad isn't it!!