to tell or not to tell?

[babyrose]

Tonight my sister came for dinner and Ds and her were playing and he wanted to take her to my house( which was my room) it didn't dawn on me til they were already up there that I left my fertility book on my bed side table! I didn't mention it but I know she seen it so now do I tell her or leave it?!

Are you pregnant or trying for number 2? Either way, I think you should just tell her seeing as she's clocked the book.

I'd say it's up to you, unless she's the type who would ask directly.

When I told MIL.(18 months into TTC) she was so understanding and lovely, but she confessed she'd seen my fit for fertility book and of sticks but didn't want to say anything.

I reckon most people if they had seen would understand it's a sensitive subject and if you've not said anything it's because you don't wan to discuss it.

Ttc#2 and have been for a while now, I wanted to say something but feel guilty asking her to keep it quiet and I'm not sure I want dh to know if I told her.

She would never ask directly and we hadn't told anyone we are TTC.

I wouldn't say anything tbh I'm sure she won't.

I feel bad as she is my sister and I do want to tell her but then I would feel bad don't think dh would want her to know! Aargh!

In the end I did speak to her and it turns out her and oh have been TTC for 18 months! And she has the same fertility book. So we had a good chat about things.