Sar – what a generous and sweet post on the other thread. Thanks so much. I’m doing exactly as you say an to be honest, I am so much more relaxed than last time. I was so precious about even bending over before but i’m just forgetting about it. I will just say this though, you will make the most wonderful mum.
Coco – ii’m sorry MrCoco is not wanting ivf. I can’t remember how long you have been trying?. I hope that your healthy eating will pay off.
Cos – thinking of you tonight.
Rabbit – you sound in such pain and wish we lived close. You have so much to be angry about and I completely understand this. I am also baffled as to why you were never scanned for an afc earlier-that makes me very cross. And it doesn’t seem just or fair that with your healthy lifestyle that you are having to go through this. In fact, Roy and I were so bloody angry on the phone yesterday as we were saying exactly the same thing about us. All the supplements, 75g of walnuts a day, years of organic food, no smoking or drinking, the weight loss – we did everything to improve sperm and egg quality yet it didn’t do anything and to all intents and purposes, it seemed to make everything worse. It’s so easy to feel bitter. Anyway, I think you have to allow yourself to get angry and realise that is a natural part of this process and then accept it and utilise it in a positive way and decide how you are going to move forward.
The menopause. You aren’t going through it. I’ve said it before but your fsh is not high. Who knows what your grandparents and mother’s fsh was when they gave birth in their 40s. People can have fsh in their 20s and still get pregnant. People can also have low afc and it doesn’t mean you are menopausal. Also, i think you make a hugely important point in that your left ovary could only be seen at your lap. The scanner probably never found it if that is the case. The exact same thing happened to me where i was scanned and a vacant hole appeared and there didn’t seem to be anything there. The doctor told it could be a sign of premature ovarian failure. A second gynae then told me i was missing the left ovary but oddly enough under sedation they manage to extract a number of eggs. It is just well hidden.
I know with such a depressing and horrifying meeting it is hard to see the point or have any positivity but i think you need to give ivf a go and go in blazing, yes open heart (love that term Sar). I agree with Buzz and everything she says. At this moment, you have no idea whether quality is an issue. If you have the financial means you could have your nk cells tested to see if you want to support your nhs cycle with other treatments. You may think your outlook seems bleak but there have been signs of hope (cps/early m/c’s etc) . Fertility works in mysterious ways and there is no reason to think that you won’t be the one to strike gold. You’re down but certainly not out. We are here for you. It’s good to let everything out so you can learn to process it.
So I kind of managed the injection last night after watching a youtube video. (Buzz – thank you so much for the offer of vials of gestone, I have quite a few left over from last time.. I love the fact you are have all these drugs and know where to get them! Yes, the diagram shows the lower back ). I did struggle pressing the thick oil in though. I didn’t manage to use the last quarter as i wasn’t strong enough. When i drew the needle out, there was quite a bit of blood in the syringe which is a bad thing I think but i couldn’t really see the blood until I drew the needle out, i must have gone through a vein. There was a lot of bleeding afterwards and I felt pretty faint too but other than that it wasn’t actually that painful and I felt semi-proud of myself. Round 2 tonight.