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Teetering on the edge of the 2ww September bus PART 5

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wispaxmas · 24/09/2013 10:41

Thought I would start up a new bus before the old one stalls, so ho aboard!

BFPs so far
NannyPlumForPM
mrsmummytobe
BushPrincess
Hendricks
KillashandraRee
Clareyfarey
Snoozysleeper
Coffeeguzzler
onefunkymama
Italianwiking84
Cupcake1985
Spirael
Mistyautumn
Wispaxmas

14 BFPs

Awaiting BFPs
JosiePosiePuddingAndPie ttc#2, cycle2, bfp 1st
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 1st
Widget88 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 4th
Chubbykitty ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 5th
Bloumermaid ttc#1, cycle?, bfp 6th
RaRaZ ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 7th
Positivementakattitude ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 7th
Dontsqueezetheteabag ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 10th
MrsHende ttc#2, cycle11, bfp 10th
blamber ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 13th
Toffeecrispyum ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 14th
Worried ttc#2, cycle18, bfp 19th
Jessieagain ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 20th
coco808 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 21st
Fox82 ttc#1, cycle10, bfp 21st
dutchss ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 21st
chattychattyboomba ttc#?, cycle2, bfp 22nd
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 22nd
Purplegeekygirl ttc#2, cycle14, bfp 22nd
Bambi27 ttc#2, cycle10, bfp 24th
crazylady2013 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 24th
NottaLotta ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 24th
Pocopearl ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 25th
ImaginaryHat ttc#1, cycle5, bfp 25th
ExactlyWhat ttc#3, cycle1, bfp 25th
Breakingbadaddict ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 25th
cheesysmile ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 26th
Greenface ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 26th
onelifeonechance ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 26th
mama31 ttc#2, cycle3, bfp 27th
fifi669 ttc#2, cycle6, bfp 28th
Daisychain44 ttc#2, cycle7, bfp 28th
Monkette ttc#?, cycle?, bfp 28th
MrsB2013 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 28th
NeuroticSweetTalk ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 28th
Millymolly01 ttc#2, cycle3, bfp 28th
GillyBillyWilly ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
DisneyDiva87 ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
Armylovin ttc#2, cycle8, bfp 30th
Lucyfluff ttc#4, cycle2, bfp 30th
Refoca ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 30th
Willows tree ttc#2, cycle1, bfp?
Theborrower ttc#2, cycle2, bfp?
M33r ttc#1, cycle9, bfp?
Seatfor5 ttc#4, cycle5, bfp?
internationallove985 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
ThoraNomiki ttc#2, cycle3, bfp?
Rockyroller123 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp?
BlueC2 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
Lulubelle26 ttc#1 cycle3, bfp?
Pencilsandprams ttc#2, cycle4, bfp?

OP posts:
lucyfluff · 27/09/2013 14:48

Yeah good plan. Enjoy the evening mama :)

DH is getting us chinese tonight, cant be arsed to cook!!

Reading through gillys post made me think how crazy ithas been testing this week!! :D

mama31 · 27/09/2013 14:55

I know lucy!!!! But I'm just so impatient and have little self control lol its just my nature.

Oh yum! Chinese! :) enjoy!!! Hope to hear some good news by Monday ;)

lucyfluff · 27/09/2013 14:59

No Im the same, I want everything done now !! Not a good quality to have lol!! Just have to hope AF stays away and then I will have real reason to poas!!

Yeah fingers crossed for Monday x

Writerwannabe83 · 27/09/2013 15:01

Hi mama and cheesy - I'm not doing too good today. The bleeding has slowed down but I'm feeling really low. I just keep bursting into tears. I thought pregnancy was going to be an amazing and exciting time but in reality it has been a nightmare. I have been scared, upset, worried and ill for the last 8 weeks of my life and my excitement about my future is slowly crumbling away. I'm trying to stay positive but it's just too much. My boss wants to sign me off Sick for the remainder of my pregnancy. This baby means everything to me and my husband and when I saw all that fresh blood just seeping out of me yesterday I felt worried and scared but also accepting, as if this horrible end was always going to be the destiny of my pregnancy. I just wanted to have a happy and healthy pregnancy but I'm just so unhappy.

cheesysmile · 27/09/2013 15:08

Oh writer im so sorry, but remember the scan said baby was ok. See how you go over the next couple of days and then try to get another scan to put your mind at rest. I know how scary and upsetting it is to see that blood, but for some people it can be ok and I'm keeping my fingers crossed that you're one of them.

cheesysmile · 27/09/2013 15:09

Mama you crack me up ... yep big fat cheesy smile here Grin

mama31 · 27/09/2013 15:16

Awwwwh writer I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling :( it is such an emotional time for you but you must stay positive and take care of yourself. Rest up as much as you can and just follow all the doctors orders, say your prayers and try not to pre-empt things before they happen. I hope the bleeding stops and you have some good news soon. HUGS.

mama31 · 27/09/2013 15:17

I'm smiling too cheesy....until af shows...ill keep smiling :)

internationallove985 · 27/09/2013 15:44

Hi mama, apology accepted. yes I am me and very happy to be I don't think anyone has more fun than me. Still no sign of A.F so FX, mind you she's not due till tomoorow so she could still pounce, talking of pouncing that's what I'll be doing later.

On a serious note after suffering a miscarriage that completley devestated me and also being blessed with my beautiful D.D I would never lie about something so close to my heart. I am a hardworking single mum who has better things to do with my time than make up crack pot stories about ttc. I am actually quite hurt by that comment t.b.h but I wont hold a grudge as it was I am sure it was posted without meaning to cause upset. Also may I embarrass myself and ask what's a catfish.xx
Hi Writer. I'm a receptionist/Administrator, but being an escort. Getting paid for sexy time seems like arguably the best job in the world.

xx

mama31 · 27/09/2013 16:03

International def not intended to hurt or upset you!! You are def one of a kind I just think you surprise us sometimes that's why I asked if you are a catfish! Good to know you are real and I respect that you are a hardworking single mum.....who is just obsessed with sex!!!! Lol

mama31 · 27/09/2013 16:03

I apologise if I've hurt your feeling was meant in good humour also!!

ThoraNomiki · 27/09/2013 16:09

Aw Writer I've got everything crossed for you. I hope the bleeding stops very soon. In the meantime feet up, tea in one hand, chocolate in the other! x

internationallove985 · 27/09/2013 16:29

Hi mama. Enjoy your date. Hope A.F stays away.

You're definatly right about one thing though I am obsessed with sex. (L.O.L) XX

JellyBeanDavey · 27/09/2013 16:44

Hello ladies!!

Just a quick pop in to say hello and to tell you AF finally came today (cd79) with no intervention. Which sounds a bit more promising. Though I have have been in a hell of pain.

I have been sooo hormonal it's unbelievable. I've been crying at night and moody as hell. Weeing a lot and very sore nipples up until Wednesday. Even today, we we're about to go into the new forest wildlife park (which I'd been looking forward to since yesterday) and I just burst into tears bcos I was in so much pain and couldn't justify going in there, paying money and then barely staying :(

So even though AF is here, I'm still not going to post on mn as it has taken my mind of ttc since not posting. But I am breaking one rule and using my cb monitor (as haven't used it yet).

Congratulations to all the bfps. I'll be checking in occasionally still. Good luck and FX!! Smile

mama31 · 27/09/2013 16:46

Thanks inernational I will......and you enjoy......your sex....

Choccywoccydodah · 27/09/2013 17:15

Just lurking still. Not read back all the way, but got to writer.
Keep strong honey. I had bleeding all the way through with my ds. My first bleed was New Year's Eve when out with friends, I'd only found out 3 weeks before. My mum phoned my mw and got me in for a scan with a couple of days and everything was fine.
I hope everything is ok and you are being looked after. If you are worried about anything, I strongly recommend you phone your mw or the hospital, mine were fantastic, couldn't have asked for better, and I had numerous scans and checks.
Don't hold back, help is always there when you need it xxx

Choccywoccydodah · 27/09/2013 17:34

Congratulations cheesy!

Mama and everyone else, good luck for testing.
International, just wondering if your dd was conceived without the father not knowing you we're trying?

m33r · 27/09/2013 17:47

Writer. Hang in there. Thinking of you and sending you all good wishes and happy thoughts! Hopefully this will clear up soon and you can start enjoying your pg. best wishes!!!!

mama31 · 27/09/2013 18:08

Thanks choccy!! I still feel preggers despite the bfns lol still clinging to the side of the bus with optimism!!!

How you keeping choccy???

Off out on my date, best not drink too much since I'm convinced I'm preggers.....what a loser right?? Lol

Choccywoccydodah · 27/09/2013 18:17

Enjoy your night mama. All good ta, coming up to ov hopefully this weekend Smile

Sparrowlegs248 · 27/09/2013 18:33

Sorry you are having a bad time writer do take it easy with the cat and i do hope all remains well with you. Anecdotes are probably useless but heres one for you - friend became pregnant after two cycles and was so excited she told everyone immediately. Even got her bfp at work! She had bleeding at about 7 weeks. Went home and had a few days off. It stopped. Baby fine so far and due in a fortnight!! Really good luck to you. X

PurpleGeekyGirl · 27/09/2013 18:35

I think the issue international is your need to shove in our face, in every post, your totally amazing and utterly insatiable sex life. I'm nearly 40. I get it. I was young once too. But I don't need to come on to a ttc forum and read about someone trying to show off their frankly ridiculous sex life to compensate for not having a stable and loving relationship with a partner with all the gory graphic detail you like to include. There are many other suitable forums on t'internet for you to do that. Start a blog. Set up a YouTube channel. It's not appropriate for a ttc bus imho. I feel sorry for you tbh.

I wish you all the best in your ttc journey, however I do wish you would be honest with your sperm donor. It's not fair on him and it's not fair on any child you may or may not conceive. And it does make me question how much of what else you tell us is also true.

Sorry if the above hurts or offends but I've been sitting on my hands for long enough. I'll go back to just ignoring your posts again if that's easier.

m33r · 27/09/2013 18:37

If we're doing anecdotes for writer... If they help... And if they don't writer, please ignore. Sis in law had a similar nightmare and now has the most cheerful, cutest (bias??), already walking 11month old son. Went two weeks over term too! Good vibes your way x

Choccywoccydodah · 27/09/2013 18:48

What purple said Smile

impatientlywaiting · 27/09/2013 18:54

Hi Everyone,
I got my BFP in the August bus, and I'm 9 weeks today.

Just checking in to see the recent BFPs.

Writer so sorry to hear what you're going through. Try to rest and stay positive. I'm sure at your stage statistics are on your side and it's very rare that things go wrong after the golden 12 weeks.

Cheesy so so pleased for you, we miscarried at about the same time, at about the same stage too. I was hoping we both wouldn't have to wait too long for a BFP and over the moon that you have one now.

Good luck to everyone still testing.

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