mumsnetters I need your help deciding what to do

[babyrose]

I'm currently on cd18 and I don't think I've ovulated yet but ff says I did on cd13, I've been using clear blue opk's and the first time I used them was cd12 which gave me low, next day and onwards have been high.

I don't know what to do now, I have 4 clear blue left and we all are feeling very ill (ds,dh and I) do I give up this month and use the last four next month?

Bump

How long are your cycles normally? Do you have a feeling for when you think you ov based on what yor body does?

Around 27-30 days, yeah I think so if I hadn't have used the clear blue I would have gone with ff and said I've ovulated already on or around cd 13 and that's when I had all my fertility signs.

It's so confusing isn't it?!

Why don't you use this time to rest, give yourself a break to recover, a 'holiday' almost from trying? Use the remaining 4 next month. I know it's easy for me to say but maybe you need some time off from it all to regroup?

It's like a good idea I don't have any energy at the moment!

I wanted for us to give it our best shot this month as we are now into our 10th month and I had this dream last night that that's us heading off to the doctor to get our 12 month tests(sad)

We always want things to be their best though don't we? You're not perfect, you get sick and that's ok. Just rest and use this time to look after yourself. You'll need that energy for when you get your bfp! Dreams mean nothing. You're worrying so it's coming out in your dreams. That's all.

Thanks fine, yip going to do lots of resting for a while and just see what happens for us. Thanks.

Good. Keep me updated

I will do thanks for your support.

Af. Arrived still have no idea of ovulation times but going to stay relaxed about things. Not sure if I want to carry on temping and plan is to dtd every 2/3days!