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The September BFP bus, second thread and not even September yet

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Kemie · 29/08/2013 23:37

Please join the new bus here, the old one's all out of gas....

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wispaxmas · 02/09/2013 11:16

Where abouts do you live, bushprincess?

justhayley · 02/09/2013 11:17

Morning I'm in a bit of a state and need some hand holding.
As you know I got a BFP but faint ish line on friday, the plan was to test again today or tomorrow.
This morning I woke up went to the toilet and and quite a lot of red watery blood in my underwear. I'm absolutely devastated and not sure if maybe my BFP wasn't a positive or perhaps I'm having an early miscarriage either way it's not good.
I'm not at home so called the local EPU and explained the situation - they said that even if the line was faint they would say it was positive and that I should go to A&E now (as I'm not near my GP) and get a referral to them.

I'm just having a bath then going to go to A&E.
Can anyone tell me what they will do?
If It was a positive and I'm losing it would I still get a positive result if I tested now? Will they be able to tell if I was pregnant or had a false positive and AF has just arrive? (am going to feel ridiculous I I'm going to A&E because my period came)!

Please talk to me I'm in a total panic Sad
Xxx

DisneyDiva87 · 02/09/2013 11:18

BFPs so far
NannyPlumForPM

1 BFP

Awaiting BFPs
JellyBeanDavey ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 1st
Bushprincess ttc#1, cycle2, bfp due 1st
JosiePosiePuddingAndPie ttc#2, cycle2, bfp 1st
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 1st
nettle86 ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 1st
Justhayley ttc#2 cycle 5 (months 10) BFP 2nd
clareyfarey ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 3rd
Widget88: TTC #1, Cycle3, BFP 4th
Hendricks ttc#3, cycle2, bfp 5th
Chubbykitty ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 5th
VickyVix ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 5th
Keepswimming1 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 6th
PurpleGeekyGirl ttc#2, cycle13, bfp 6th
Bloumermaid Ttc #1 cycle? BFP 6th
RaRaZ ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 7th
mama31 ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 7th
Positivementakattitude ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 7th
mrsmummytobe ttc#1, cycle5, bfp 7th
Nulanoo ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 8th
Gingerandcocoa ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 9th
GinandStripes ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 9th
Purplegeekygirl ttc#2, cycle13, bfp 9th
Flame40s ttc#3, cycle2, bfp 9th
Dontsqueezetheteabag ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 10th
MrsHende TTC #2 Cycle 11(!) BFP 10th
Englishteacher78 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 11th
Owlie84 ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 11th
Jaykay987 ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 17th
KillashandraRee ttc#2, cycle4, bfp 13th
blamber ttc#1 cycle1, bfp 13th
CoffeeGuzzler ttc#1, cycle1, bfp 14th
Refoca ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 14th
Toffeecrispyum ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 14th
Charleslingus ttc#3, cycle3, bfp 15th
SoMuchFruit ttc#2, cycle2 bfp 15th
Snoozysleeper ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 16th
panicmechanic ttc#2, cycle10, bfp 17th
Mistyautumn ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 18th
Italianwilking84 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 18th
Worried ttc#2, cycle18, bfp 19th
coco808 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 21st
Cupcake1985 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 21st
Fox82 ttc#1, cycle10, bfp 21st
dutchss ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 21st
chattychattyboomba ttc#?, cycle2, bfp 22nd
PinkHat1 ttc#1, cycle3, bfp 22nd
Bambi27 ttc#2, cycle10, bfp 24th
crazylady2013 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp 24th
Choccywoccydodah ttc#2, cycle1, bfp 24th
ImaginaryHat ttc#1 cycle5 bfp 25th
ExactlyWhat ttc#3 cycle1, bfp 25th
Leezl, ttc#1, cycle 2, bfp 25th
Wispaxmas ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 25th
cheesysmile ttc#1, cycle 3, bfp 26th
Greenface ttc #1, cycle 2, BFP due 26th
fifi669 ttc#2, cycle6, bfp 28th
Daisychain44 ttc#2, cycle7, bfp 28th
gillywillywoo ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
DisneyDiva87 ttc#1, cycle4, bfp 29th
Armylovin ttc #2 cycle 8 bfp due 30th
Lucyfluff TTC#4, cycle 2, BFP 30th
Willows tree ttc#2, cycle1, bfp?
Theborrower ttc#2, cycle2, bfp?
M33r ttc#1, cycle9, bfp?
Seatfor5 ttc#4, cycle5, bfp?
internationallove985 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
ThoraNomiki ttc#2, cycle3, bfp?
onefunkymama ttc#3, cycle?, bfp?
Rockyroller123 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp?
VJONES1985 ttc#1, cycle2, bfp?
BlueC2 ttc#?, cycle?, bfp?
Lulubelle26 ttc#1 cycle3, bfp ?

DisneyDiva87 · 02/09/2013 11:19

Do you still have the test justhayley? Can you fish it out of the bin and take it along so you can show your faint line? At least then you have proof that you got a bfp

DisneyDiva87 · 02/09/2013 11:20

Also, should have said, really sorry for you, have a virtual hug ((O))

mama31 · 02/09/2013 11:26

Awh justhayley so sorry!!! Just don't panic they will fully understand your concern but yes bring the test with u if pos (good idea disney). So sad for u :( hugs lots of!!!!

flame40s · 02/09/2013 11:29

Thankyou mama31 I cant wait, my summer hols are late this year... hope my af is even later like 9 months later!

So I just went on amazon and bought heaps of early ov and hpts on next day delivery so I can pack them!! I really am crazy!

gillywillywoo · 02/09/2013 11:30

Justhayley I'm so sorry Thanks

I got a faint line on a test a week or so ago.. I tested a few more times and kept getting faint lines. DH could see them so I know it wasn't my imagination and I also uploaded some pics online and the ladies from the August bus could see the lines too... So they were definitely real.

After a day or so the lines started to get even fainter and then they pretty much disappeared.
Then AF arrived Blush

I'm guessing it was a chemical pregnancy.
I've never ever EVER had any kind of faint line before and this time I got numerous faint lines on numerous tests.

I didn't go to the doctors or even tell anybody apart from DH (and mumsnetters!).

I had a little cry and now see it as almost I good thing.. I CAN get pregnant... I WILL get pregnant! Last month just wasnt my month.

I looked up chemical pregnancies and they happen for the same reason as some later miscarriages. Normally there's a chromosome issue which stops the little bean from progressing any further. I'm guessing that's what happened for me Sad

I dont really have any advice because everyone is different.
AF has buggered off for me now so I'm back on the OPKs as of tomorrow (CD8) and will be SMEP-ing and DTD as much as possible this cycle!
Our false alarm last cycle has made DH (and me) want this even more Smile

gillywillywoo · 02/09/2013 11:32

By the way disney I'm excited that our BFPs are due at the same time Smile
Hope my body behaves this month and doesn't throw a wobbly and ovulate late like previous months!

How awesome if we both got a bfp at the same time GrinSmile

FoxMulder · 02/09/2013 11:35

It's deffo good Gilly. It was just your body having a practice!

keepswimming1 · 02/09/2013 11:45

Well disney - I think you are right, I think I was being ambitious. I don't think I'm going to be able to wait much longer.

So I have no tests in the house, so can anyone recommend any cheap supermarket ones, as I'm not going to be able to get into town all week :)
I'll be testing 4 days for missed period??

I'm still feeling sick, and very emotional, so I just have to know... NOW :)

VJONES1985 · 02/09/2013 11:45

Hi Gilly. I'm also on cd7 today and will be SMEP-ing this month. I am just praying that I don't have a 7-day luteal phase like I did last month :-( Good luck!

mama31 · 02/09/2013 11:55

Keepswimming do it!!!!! Good luck!!!! Superdrug ones apparently good or do an early response one! Can't wait to hear, symptoms sound promising! :)

keepswimming1 · 02/09/2013 12:02

I think I have got myself a tad excited lol I will be very disappointed.

I can't get to a superdrug, any other ideas for cheapos?

CoffeeGuzzler · 02/09/2013 12:33

Morning everyone. Just caught up on the last few pages. So sorry about all the bfns. Kemie, Chubby, Killa, Lucy hugs all around. Sorry if I have missed anyone. Not a good start to September!!

justhayley that's terrible. Holding your hand. I hope you have fished out the stick out of the bin and taken it to the hospital. Better to know really.

wispaxmas · 02/09/2013 12:34

Keepswimming, boots are 25 mIU/ml, which is just as sensitive as FRER tests!

bushprincess · 02/09/2013 12:49

justhayley so so sorry, huge hugs, I've no advise other than disneys suggestion that you take the test along, but sounds like it was a chemical pregnancy. Hope you're feeling ok, physically if not emotionally.

disney and wispa I'm in zimbabwe and amazon does deliver here, but I'd be waiting quite some time!!!

mrsmummytobe · 02/09/2013 12:53

Just caught up on all the news. Sorry & hugs for the bfns Sad justhayley I'm really sorry to hear what's happening. Really hope you're ok.

mrsmummytobe · 02/09/2013 12:54

mama are you still testing with me on 7th??? :) I'm not massively hopeful but no sign of af yet so you never know....

keepswimming1 · 02/09/2013 12:58

I will go and pick one up tonight when I finish work :)

Big hug for justhayley xx

VickyVix · 02/09/2013 13:16

Sorry to hear this justhayley but best to get checked out anyway just so you know what's going on. Take the test with you if you can. I'm sure they will be totally understanding. Sending hugs to you.

LittleMouseontheDairy · 02/09/2013 13:19

Hello, I've been lurking a bit, twiddling my thumbs as DP is away until mid-Oct so am waiting to join a November bus.

But I just wanted to give justhayley a hand hold. There can be other reasons for early pregnancy bleeding, but I don't know of that applies so very early on. I hope it goes ok in A&E. I wouldn't bother doing another test right now, but maybe they'll do one at A&E? You got a BFP (faint or not) so they won't think you're being daft for going in! Chin up, breathe and I hope it goes ok.

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Choccywoccydodah · 02/09/2013 13:24

Oh justhayley I'm so sorry. Def go in though with your test if you have it. Hugs for you xxxx

Choccywoccydodah · 02/09/2013 13:25

And go for it keepswimming!!

My opks have just arrived, I don't know what to do.
If I have a 35 day cycle, FF says my fertile days are next week. If I put in 30 days, it says my fertile days start tomorrow. So confused as to what to do! I've never used them before!

flame40s · 02/09/2013 13:26

I hope justhayley is OK. They will probably take bloods from her and test to see if hormone levels are rising or falling to detect MC or continued pregnancy. Im no expert, but thats what I think will happen. I hope its not ectopic Sad

Big hug from me.