DTD questions....as normal or

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Should i be more calculated about it. I keep reading about having an orgasm AFTER he does to somehow help? (normally have mine first, and sometimes together depending.....) Position? Does this really make a difference? And the after sex leakage.....i have read that it is just fluid not sperm. How do you know?!?! Has someone tested it?
Does it really help to stick your legs in the air?!!

Yes some research has been done. Orgasm doesn't make a difference. Position, no research done, but unlikely to make a difference as sperm will just swim up. Leakage is just fluid, the swimmers go into the cervix. Legs in the air or staying down for a long time also makes no difference as the swimmers will go where they need to without being bothered by gravity.

Excellent thank you! Carry on as normal then, very pleased to hear it!

Iv read that if you orgasm after your partner your cervix contracts and sucks more sperm to it or something like that. Have no idea if it's true but an orgasm never hurt anyone so worth a shot I say

Yes i read that too and was a bit concerned as its usually me first! Lol! But apparently its all codswallop so will carry on as usual except more frequently......