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dr said i was pregnant and then a negative test pls help im stressed

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mummyneedinganswers · 27/07/2013 23:28

Okay so a few weeks ago the doctor confirmed via a blood test i was pregnant:) my partner and i was over the moon weve been trying for two year had 2 mc and thought we couldnt have any kids:( so wen we found out this new we were extated absolutely overjoyed and then after bein declared pregnant i done another test to prove it to a friend and then it said negative :( so i done 3 more test and they said the same:( im so stressed im fed up of all these mcs nd false hope has anyone evef experienced this and have you any advice on ttc for me as im really trying and im jus so depressed now i feel like giving up :'(

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Vatta · 28/07/2013 05:03

So sorry to hear this.

You should see your doctor to double-check, but this could be an early miscarriage.

I appreciate it may not be much comfort right now, but if the worst has happened then this would be your third MC. After three MC's your gp can refer you for recurrent miscarriage testing, so you may at least find out what the problem is and be able to fix it.

Hope it all works out for you.

whattooooodo · 28/07/2013 06:27

How pregnant should you be? Isn't there a limit on the levels of pregnancy hormone a home test can read?
(I have know idea if this is correct, think I read it somewhere) I hope you find answers soon.

mummyneedinganswers · 28/07/2013 10:36

I havent had any bleeding or pain but and yea my partnerblooked it up and said that could be the reason y it saod negative xx

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armsandtheman · 28/07/2013 10:45

I'm so sorry. It's awful having a miscarriage. Hope that the tests are wrong. XX

mummyneedinganswers · 28/07/2013 11:40

Anno im so pissed off tbh im jus utterly fed up xx

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RaRaZ · 28/07/2013 12:14

Oh I'm really sorry Sad. Similar happened to me in May, and it's awful. I'm afraid it's most likely an early mc. My thoughts are with you Flowers. Take care.

mummyneedinganswers · 28/07/2013 13:37

Thanks but i dnt thinks its a mc cz ive no bleeding or pain or anything xx

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OneStepCloser · 28/07/2013 13:53

How far pregnant are you meant to be mummy need? Do you have any symptoms? Sickness, tired etc?

FannyFifer · 28/07/2013 13:56

Could have been a chemical pregnancy, would show up pregnancy hormones on blood test but egg then doesn't implant in womb.

How many weeks are you meant to be.

mummyneedinganswers · 28/07/2013 15:17

Was meant to be 6-8 weeks Nd i had all the typical symptoms jus so pissed off xx

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RaRaZ · 28/07/2013 15:24

Mummy : I don't mean to be horrible, but it is possible to mc without either...the body can reabsorb. I really really hope I'm wrong in your case though.

mummyneedinganswers · 28/07/2013 15:28

Iknow im jus hopin im not

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OneStepCloser · 28/07/2013 15:36

And all the symptoms have disappeared? I'm so sorry, as Vatta says after 3 macs you can be referred to see if there is a reason. Not what you want to hear Sad. Hug for you x

mummyneedinganswers · 28/07/2013 17:20

Thnx

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mummyneedinganswers · 29/07/2013 21:14

Well i havent retesed but im now getting the queezy nausea and vommiting and the tiredness and constipation could i be pregnant and the negatives just werent picking it up cz wen i phoned the doctor this morning and explained it to her she said tgat my blood test said i am pregnant and that explains my sickness and said that i didnt miscarriage and that the hpk jus didnt pick it up does anyone else think this could be the case ? Xx

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jaykay987 · 29/07/2013 21:17

Sorry - I'm not sure.

But hopefully your doctor knows best...and it wouldn't surprise me if the blood test is just a lot more sensitive and has picked up Mich earlier than the negative tests.

FX

FannyFifer · 29/07/2013 21:24

What test did you use?

mummyneedinganswers · 29/07/2013 21:57

Boots own ones cz i dont have a lot of money atm and its jus so fristrating xxx

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HerrenaHarridan · 29/07/2013 22:09

I don't want to give you false hope but I tested negative with every test I took til ten weeks! False negatives are fairly common

If your only 6-8 weeks and using cheap tests I wouldn't jump to any conclusions right now.

If you can't stretch to a better test you should go back to the doc.

Also worth testing first thing in the morning as your tribe will have a higher concentration of the chemical test is looking for.

Keep us updated Smile

HerrenaHarridan · 29/07/2013 22:10

Tribe = urine Confused

Good luck

mummyneedinganswers · 29/07/2013 22:18

I took another test there now theres a very faint second line :) so gna go bk to the doctor this week xx

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FamiliesShareGerms · 29/07/2013 22:20

I didn't get a +ve test until 10/11 weeks either. Fingers crossed your pg has stuck

OneStepCloser · 29/07/2013 22:23

Thats really positive news mummyneed Smile fingers crossed and let us know!

willitbe · 29/07/2013 22:35

There are alternatives to the possibility of miscarriage that people have suggested here. Firstly it could be that like some women you just haven't metabolised the hcg into your urine thus rendering home pregnancy tests useless. Or only get late positive tests.

Alternatively the levels of hcg are so high that you get the "hook effect", where too much hcg causes the home pregnancy tests to effectively overload and give a false negative. This does not normally happen til after 8 weeks.

My mum and sister both had successful pregnancies where they never got a positive test, it is not always a problem.

Try to relax and trust all is well, if it is worrying you too much the see your doctor/ midwife for reassurance. All the best.

mummyneedinganswers · 29/07/2013 22:38

Anno thanks for all the positive advice its really lifted my mood :) xx

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