Hi Everyone,
Have just found this website as wanted to share my experiences with other PCOS sufferers who are taking Clomid to TTC.
I am 24 years old and my partner is 25. I have had PCOS since I was about 18/19 so have always known this was going to be a gruelling journey to go on when I eventually found the right man! But may I just add, even though I have known about my condition for many years and have sort of come to terms with it - it doesnt by any means mean that it doesnt hurt everytime I hear one of friends has fallen pregnant or see it plastered all over Facebook! I know that hopefully it will be my turn one day but I understand how the rest of you feel - it cuts very deep and u cant help but feel extremely jealous.
My fiance and me started our fertility treatment back in May and I had to have a Hysterosalpingagram (not sure thats spelt correctly) and this procedure was one of the most painful experiences! Basically my first ever boyfriend gave me something horrible after he cheated on me which went undiscovered until I had a horrible case of Pelvic Inflammatory Disease which showed up the infection, which meant that before the Sub Fertility Doc could start me on Clomid I had to have this done to make sure there wasnt a blockage in one of my fallopian tubes - anyway... there was and this is why it was SO painful.
After this was done they started me on Clomid 50mg to be taken from days 2-6 of my cycle. I had read in a few places on the web that falling pregnant on the first go was quite common and got my hopes so much that I even started picking names!! Which only made me even more upset when Aunt Irma turned up on day 33! (I thought I was going to come on my P on day 28 as my ovulation predictor tests came back positive as if it was a 28 cycle, so got all my hopes thinking that I pregnant!)
I have just finished my 3rd month of Clomid and my ovulation test came back positive this morning so me and hubby to be are baby dancing tonight and every day til next tuesday/wednesday (if I havent knackered him out by then!lol)
Which means that after next Tues/Weds I am going to be a nightmare because I have to then wait yet another 2 weeks to see if Aunt Irma turns up or not.
Although I would like to give you lovely ladies a little bit of advice that I have found has helped me. I didnt get upset at the start of the month when P came. It wasnt meant to happen that month so theres always next month. Please dont sit there and obsess about becoming preg - I did this and it only led to heartache, you're periods should become regular 28 day cycles each time if you are relaxed and NOT stressed out - the Clomid helps make your P's regular so just sit back and let it do all the work inside your body - AND dont plan and regiment the baby dancing - the stress of this I have found will make you too tight for penetration and you wont enjoy it (it hurt me so bad last month that I couldnt actually do it anymore). Spend at least 30 mins - an hour on foreplay and enjoy the baby dancing.
I hope this helps and if any of you ladies have any questions for me I will more than happy to answer as best I can.
Fingers crossed for you all!
Love Tigermouse