Excellent egg buddies - for all who are IVFing in July/August/Sept

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Over here ladies!

Massive congrats to NookNook!! Great start to the new thread.

I've never seen such tender friendship offered to someone than for you here, Twinks. Hold on tight and listen to us when we say you will be a mum. You cannot trust yourself to think right, but you can trust us. These are not platitudes, they are strong beliefs from women who know you'll get there in the end xx

Omg girls, what are you all doing here? Thanks so much. It's very hard to see me husband so down. We are broken hearted.

Praying you tested too early winkle, you so deserve your happy ending
Hugs xx

twinks darling. Your despair is so palpable. I am so,so sorry that we cannot be there to give you the huge RL hug you so desperately need. I know it doesn't compare but I am sending you a massive squeeze. xxx Whatever happens with that test in the morning please remember what you & DH have in your lives. Gain strength from that and carry on. You will succeed.

Hi twinkle just to let you know someone else is thinking of you tonight.

Big hug for you and mr twinkle.

Hi twinks I'm here too as a very old berry!
Test again tomorrow with fmu hun. Lets not lose hope until then. We will all hold your hands through the night and wait outside toilet door while you poas!!!!
I can't imagine how hard this is on you and seeing your DH down will only make it harder. But you're stronger than you give yourself credit for. And I know you will get through this.
Lots and lots and lots of love even if its not a MN thing to do
Lol xx

twinks I know exactly how you feel right now (as do many others on here). It's utterly, utterly heartbreaking and unless you've been through it, no-one can truly understand where you're at right now. But, please test tomorrow morning just to be sure. Whatever tomorrow brings, you can deal with it and, once you're ready, you can think about plan B. You do have options - please don't forget that. I am thinking of you and sending you a big bear hug. Xx

We are here because I think even on public Internet forums, you get an idea of who the good guys are in life. And you, and Mr Winkle, are in that group.

Test again tomorrow and whatever comes up, we are all here.

Thank you Berries for dropping by.
Twinks we will all be holding your hand tomorrow as you POAS.

Just popping in to add my hand holding to Twinks. I'll be lurking in the morning. I really don't think you should give up Twinks. It really is so early still. X

Aaah, this has just made me cry- all these lovely, sweet people coming to offer you support twinks. Try to hang on in there lovely, and if it hasn't worked this time then you and the lovely sounding mr twinks will gradually pick yourselves back up and find a way to get your heads around it all. We are bloody tough people on here and have cone through too much shit to let this defeat us now. Thinking of you for the morning xx

Wow Twinks - you may have few people to give you a cuddle in real life but on here you have some major heartwarming support my lovely. Proof positive that you have touched others and that whatever the outcome is tomorrow you will be loved. Xx

Thanks everyone, I want to get off these bloody conception boards

I meant that as in I've been here too long, not that you guys on here aren't lovely :)

twink I just had to pop in to offer you a hand to hold. Xxx
This whole journey can be horrible and cruel and we have seen it all on this thread- failed cycles, abandoned cycles, miscarriage, poor eggs, poor sperm...the list is endless. But we are still all here. Surviving. Getting by. Getting on. And you will too. No matter what the outcome tomorrow, you will survive and be strong. Just allow yourself to greive a little, together with dh. Stick together and it will all come good. I promise xxx

You may get a little glimmer of hope in the morning and this evening will seem a million miles away. But if not, we will all be here for you. Till you get there.

I have everything crossed twink. xxx

Lots of love

Now back to ironing.....

Hi twinkle, another berry popping in to offer a stroke of the head and a hand to hold. It's really not the end of the road yet although I appreciate it feels like that now (feel free to sausage wang me for my empty platitudes, it might make you feel better ). And if it's still a bfn in the morning it's still not the end of the road if you've got your frozen one. It might not be an AB, but if there wasn't any hope they wouldn't have frozen it, surely?
Hope you and Mr Twink are holding it together, thinking of you both while you get through the night until you can poas again in the morning.

And definitely dont write this off yet.

Test again and see.

This whole thing is always full of surprises. You think its over and somehow, mother nature whips the rug away!

Just wait and see xxxx

Another lurker on this thread for winkle - i am so sorry it's a bfn but I am still praying that you tested early.

Hugs to you and DH - and just want to let you know we are all here holding your hand virtually. Big hug x

I will pop in before work tomorrow (a day of work before my 24 hour drive to southern Europe!!) and check on you twink.

And I will say a little prayer to St. Gerard tonight for you and all of us. He has looked after me recently

Ladies, I am shattered. So much to do and af is AWFUL. Boooo!!! X

I am concerned about all the lurkers....

They know what I eat for tea.

wave to everyone on thread.

Thx everyone. Overwhelmed by your support, it's very kind of you all.

Hey winkle it's just me joining the others to say fx you were too early and good luck for the next few days - have been lurking too! () but keeping everything crossed xxx

Sorry for lurking but I've wanted to see how winkle has been getting on and now also seem to be quite interested in everyone elses progress too.

So gutted for you right now. It seems so unfair but please do not give up hope. It's not much but I can offer another hand to hold. Best of luck to you and your OH, I'll be thinking of you.
Good luck to everyone else on here too. From the little I've read you are a lovely, supportive group.

Haha I feel a bit sorry for you lot with the number of stalkers lurkers!
Winkle if you have no free hands available for holding I will hold your pee pot x

twinkle I'm here supporting you from the sidelines. I've my fingers crossed or you this morning.