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JuicySausage · 24/06/2013 18:29

...then come and get your flipping baby here. We are a group of utterly priceless loons who are deadly serious about buying our babies at the highest price (or free if you're a lucky NHS bastard). There are no failures here

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Karbea · 30/06/2013 12:55

Life I completely agree about feeling the embies are a life, I definitely consider them that. I've never had an abortion, but really couldn't after ivf. I had a friend who was considering an abortion recently and said to her that I couldn't really talk about the pros and cons with her, she really pushed me and I had to explain that after ivf, you consider and love the little follicles, then the little eggs and then the little embryos and that the thought of killing them, when they are such a miracle is just impossible to fathom.

JuicySausage · 30/06/2013 12:58

Wish, I don't think anyone could be remotely positive after the distressing last few days you've had. However, I know it wasn't AF and we know the body chucks out all manner of scary gloop for entirely innocuous reasons so I am positive you are still in the running Smile

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mejust · 30/06/2013 15:34

Wish great its slowed down,don't be negative just yet x

mejust · 30/06/2013 15:39

Hubby doing a bbq so going to relax in the garden and eat shed loads of food ,enjoying the sunshine.

MotorcycleMama · 30/06/2013 16:46

life they are difficult dilemmas you are dealing with. DH and I had lots of discussions about what we would do, but luckily the choices were fairly much made for us. We had 1 good quality blasto transferred, and by this morning, only one of our remaining 3 had become a blasto, but not well developed/good quality, so the clinic said it would be discarded as per their policy of only freezing top quality blastos. We would have loved to have a frostie, and felt quite sad this morning that they would be discarded. I suppose what I'm saying is that you may find that your options become narrower, and therefore easier to make. I hope so. Great progress though!

JuicySausage · 30/06/2013 16:50

Motor, would you remind me what your husband's SA was like?

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MotorcycleMama · 30/06/2013 16:51

mejust my OTD is Monday 8th July, but I'm quite sure I don't want to find out if I am pregnant in a clinic, so I plan to test Saturday or Sunday in my own home so I can get my head around it first. That will be late enough to be sure of an accurate test I would think (7dp5dt). Ask me again in a few days time - I might have caved in!

MotorcycleMama · 30/06/2013 16:54

juicy I didn't take too much notice to be honest. All I know is that it was 'above average' but on the day of collection, they decided to do ICSI. I think there were some clumping issues.

When is your blood test and scan??

JuicySausage · 30/06/2013 17:20

Blood test tomorrow and Wednesday and from there they will book my scan. When is OTD, Motor?

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wishicouldhavealargeMalibu · 30/06/2013 17:25

Clean your lugs out juicy Grin

JuicySausage · 30/06/2013 17:33

Ha! Ha! touché, Wish! Grin

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MotorcycleMama · 30/06/2013 17:34

Thanks wish!
juicy OTD is Monday July 8th but I intend to test a day or two before.
Blood test tomorrow!! I know that you already know the result, but it'll be great to get it formally. And the precise hcg will probably let you know that it is if it is twins! So exciting..

JuicySausage · 30/06/2013 18:06

Motor, I've already been interrogating a mum-to-be of twins on FF ReproGenesis forum who told me her blood test at 13dp5dt was 1087, which the nurse said was so good she didn't need to return. Three weeks later, at the scan, they saw two heartbeats. I'm 13dp5dt tomorrow Hmm

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JuicySausage · 30/06/2013 18:07

Motor, you didn't have any trigger shots, did you? Good. Then your result will be definitive Smile

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MotorcycleMama · 30/06/2013 18:25

Juicy I didn't have any trigger shots, so as long as I wait long enough, the result will be definitive. I just fucking hope it is positive! At the moment, I am obsessed, but level emotionally. Not sure how long that can last!
Can't wait to hear the results of your blood test tomorrow. Do the results come back instantly?

eurozammo · 30/06/2013 18:33

motor - it's the same for me. My OTD is 8 July, but I will test a day or two before, so I don't get the call at work with a surprise result.

wish I'm glad the bleeding has slowed.

MotorcycleMama · 30/06/2013 18:48

euro do the results not come back while you wait, so to speak? How long til you hear following the blood test? I look forward to sharing neurotic symptom obsessing over the next couple of days, along with wish and mejust.

eurozammo · 30/06/2013 19:11

Last time I got the blood taken before work and they phoned me with the result just after lunch. I guess it depends on the clinic/lab.

I really am strangely calm about this. During my first IVF 2ww I was on tenterhooks, even though i felt sure it hand't worked. This time I feel very calm and detached and have to really think how many days past transfer I am if asked.

JuicySausage · 30/06/2013 19:23

Motor, I'm expecting to wait all day for my result as I'm only having it done at about 10am (it's drop-in between 9 and 12 but my bus takes 1.5 hours).

I honestly never felt The Fear during my 2ww, probably because it was actually only a 1ww and even then I knew I was pregnant 3 days past my 5-day transfer. Those temperatures went wild on my chart 3 days after transfer and I felt pregnant from the very next day.

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NookNook · 30/06/2013 19:27

Euro it's funny how they're different isn't it? This time I'm not bothered and feel like I'm just going through the motions. Although I'm looking forward to GA. I love it!

BrookerC · 30/06/2013 20:30

Good evening all.Can I join please?
Been lurking for a while-it's so exciting with all the PUPOs and BFPs on here and making me feel more confident about starting cycle 2.

tametortie · 30/06/2013 20:30

Hi guys Smile

I can see there has been lots of really serious conversation on here today after last nights anal/tea bagging and fingers chat Grin

Unfortunately I can't join in at present because I have been at a 5th birthday party all day and am pissed up so if its ok with you im going to come back tomorrow with personals.

Hope everyone is well anyway xxxx lots of love!!

chocolocodowninacapulco · 30/06/2013 20:33

Can't wait to hear the blood test results tomorrow juice

nook what time's your EC tomorrow?

euro and motor well done for not doing too much symptom spotting

mejust hope you had a nice relax today and let DH look after you

wish really glad to hear that things seem to be settling down for you

karbea how are you doing?

fish glad you have made a decision you feel happy about and that these lovely ladies helped you

How are you tame?

We've had a nice day in the sun in the garden doing a bit of weeding and a bit of sunbathing. Getting impatient to know whether it will be CD1 tomorrow when I wake up, I think it will be Tuesday morning that I do the first buserelin jab.

mejust · 30/06/2013 20:33

Well I pushed it today driving this morning I'm now back on sofa really not feeling to good at all ,I look ill you know after all this.
Motor sore boobs already but must be pessaries .

chocolocodowninacapulco · 30/06/2013 20:34

X-post with brooker and tortie

Welcome brooker' what's your story?

Hoorah for being pissed up tame, enjoy that feeling x